:'(

[Tay9662]

I just want to curl up and sleep until its time for her to be here, I have 4 more weeks.. and I feel like crap it hurts to move, when I get out of bed to pee I get cramps, and hurts to walk then when I go to lay down I start cramping again.. I have to lay still for 30-45 min before I'm comfortable then its like I have too pee again :'( I keep getting the shooting pains up and down my back and lower stomach(I have no clue what they are or what's causing them either), I get so mad over stupid things because of the pain.. I feel bad because I take my fusturations out on my fiance :'( I'm just ready for her to be here.. and is there any signs of labor that I can look for?

[Rubysf]

I totally feel your pain! I'm 38 weeks and everything hurts! At my app today my doctor said no your still closed no dilation at all. I'm like really so all this pain and still nothing. I wonder how much more painful it's going to get when I start dilating.

[jerica86]

Tay the dr won't know of you'll tear until you start pushing and they see how much they can stretch you. This will be my third and my two labors before I didn't need cut so not stitches, I had hairline tears that were painful but not too bad my dr helped me a lot

[jerica86]

Hahah this is my third in four years after awhile you miss those kicks but that first time you get sick or feel the pain you remember why you hated being pregnant to begin with lol don't get me wrong i love the kicks and love my babies but I really wish I could go back in time and beat that crap outta eve for eating that apple and making this painful

[Tay9662]

well my doctor said he's definatly going to have to cut me or ill tear so im getting the epidural so I wont feel as much but if they put me in a csection and me trying natural you can only have anesthesia so I would be in some serious pain after I woke up -.- I just want baby to come on her own and to have her with as little pain possible.. to much to ask? lol :) they told me the walking epidural only lasts 6-8 hours, so after labor ill be up again

[BabyTurnip]

Lol im scared of getting a c-section too. It just gives me the chills thinking my stomach would be open......ugh! And im so scared of needles the epidural wouldnt be any easier lol im trying to boost my morale and go natural. Hopefully i heal faster like that and i really dont like the thought of being stuck in bed! But if i end up taking it then i do. Im not beating myself down with it lol

[Tay9662]

Lmao I'm going to write some post it notes down so I don't forget so easily

[4thonecoming]

Haha, unfortunately after you haven't been pregnant for a while you forget how miserable it is then you get pregnant again and it all comes back lol

[Tay9662]

Ikr!! I'm scared ill have a csection :( I really don't want that because ill have to take care of a newborn and recover from a big surgery

[BabyTurnip]

Lol i want 4! Ill definately wait at least four to five years though. Pregnancy is a lot more work then i thought! It just drains you from all energy you have. Labour is a little scary but baby has to come oit one day lol i just hope its quick....and not like 30hours long!

[Tay9662]

And to think I wanted 4 or 5, I might have 1 more in 6-10 years lmao cause pregnancy ***** and I know I'm just going to have to do labor and delivery too ah I'm so acared scared!

[Tay9662]

-.- they pretty much go away when I lay back down.. so the doctor said they couldn't be contractions,  and they might be braxton Hicks or something but idk. I just want to have her and be done

[BabyTurnip]

The shooting pain in ur back n tummy may be braxton hicks but if they get close together (5minutes apart-ish) and dont go away then ur having contractions. Lol trust me i have two weeks left and i want him out lol i just keep having 'off' days and i feel like im just being a burden on my hubby. I dont sleep at night and i usually add up falling asleep at 5am till lunch time. It *****!