Forgotten about?

[anm89]

It kinda feels like everyone kinda forgot about me now. My baby girl is starting to kick really hard and constant...and all I want is for my family to feel her. My "best friend" of 10 years quit talking to me when I got pregnant because her husband (my brother) doesn't want any kids ever. They have 1 already who is 3. So she's taking her jealously and anger out on me and just left me friendless. I don't really have anyone else to talk to except my mom. And I'm pretty sure my mom gets tired of talking to me lol. I love talking to everyone here because of the great story system. I was just wondering if anyone else ever feels forgotten about? I'm 22 weeks 2 days..it seems like it's still new to me. This is my second child by the way. My first is 4 and kinda does his own thing.

[anm89]

Support system**

[dopeasslexxx]

Sometimes I Do. & I Feel Like The People Who Do Call Me Only Call To Check Up On How The Baby Is Doing. Not About Me. Sometimes It Gets To Me But I Know My Baby Is Now The Center Of Everyone's Attention. Including Mine.

[shyloveskai]

I know how you feel im having a hard time. Im 19 weeks with my second baby and this is my last baby and my husband and everyone doesnt seem to care or ask how im feeling or how im doing because my grandfather in law is terminally ill (severely).. Everyone is worried about him. Which i understand but i hate how my husband is always mad or upset because he is doing EVERYTHING for him home care, medications, store runs, ect... I want him to take a day off but he just cant. I want him to spend a happy day with just me and our3 year old and take some time to name our unborn son but it just isnt happening right now. I have to really savor this pregnancy since this is our last. I feel lonely and sad for the situation... So i literally understand what your going through... Sorry i guess i needed someone to vent to also..

[amberkn31]

I feel the same. People only text me or call me to ask about the baby or appointments to see if I'm going to.have her or to.ask if I'm close yet. I'm at a different stage in my life and a lot of my once friends don't talk to me anymore because I'm having a baby. I only have my bf family which to be honest I'm not to fond of. I truely have NO one to talk to ever except my bf and he honestly just doesn't get it most of the time. I'm a ftm so this has made my experience a little negative.

[anm89]

Ooooo my gosh! Yeah that's how i feel too! It's just hard for me to put in to words lol. I have to tell my husband to go play with our 4 year old and I'm just so tired of him not savoring this pregnancy with me. I thought since we were having a girl that he might be really sweet or look at me differently, but he's the exact same he was before. I don't want to have to tell people to care about me, or ask me how I'm doing. No one even asks about my baby. I literally feel like I've turned invisible and I have ceased to exist. I don't like being the center of attention at all. But d-a-m-n, being completely forgotten about has just really put me down. Well you can vent to me! Cause it sounds like we're going through the same thing! No one else seems to get it =/

[anm89]

Yeah Amber- that's alot like what I'm dealing with too. I have a huge family and my husband has his dad, mom, and brother and that's it. So his family is all we ever hang out with. I miss my family and my friends. It's not fair. And my family is so rude to not care about my last baby.
My dads parents are disgusted with me and told me to get an abortion. I've been married for 5 years, we have a 4 year old and now this baby and they just hate me and my little life. And they said if I breast feed my baby then they don't want to meet her. =/

[dopeasslexxx]

I'm Sorry They Said They Don't Want To Meet Her If Shes Breastfed?  ??? Really That Seems Real Ignorant. & I'm Sorry You Have To Go Thru That.

[anm89]

It's ok, I just can't believe that they said that. They are my grandparents..supposed to be all loving and old, but they're so mean. I try my best to ignore them but they still just get under my skin. I really just need a friend. I want someone to help plan a baby shower, pick out baby clothes, paint the nursery, etc. I am normally ok with being a loner, but not today lol. Sorry for being such a whiney baby lol. Just letting it out feels great! Lol