Why is it that men think it's not ok for a woman to stay out till 3 a.m. but it's very well fine and dandy for them to stay out till almost 4 a.m??? Why do guys think that we have to sacrifice alot of things and our freedom to have babies but they still have all their freedom whenever they please??? I don't understand why they think the way the do….anyone else have some insight because I'm starting to get really sick and tired of it…I know that they mature at a slower rate but seriously when you have a 4 year old already and a baby on the way don't you think that you should of already grown up some. I don't understand where it says that being a parent is just working and supporting your family financially?? What about the bond and special time you spend with your family?