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pretty worried ):

So iv been wondering whenever me and hubby
have sex the only positions that work are with him ontop and i get pretty scared that its gunna hurt baby /: im 27 weeks so if anyone knows if its safe or not please let me know thanks ladies !
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Thanks ladies feeling a little less paranoid now! think ill give some of these a try
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Honestly, doggy is best for us! Sometimes we do the one that aurora 95 said, or me on top. But with doggy I can put a pillow under my belly and it feel so good, and no pressure on baby
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Try laying on your side with him behind you. It feels a little better since you're still laying down and relaxing rather than on top of him. :)
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My midwife said what ever position is most comfortable for me, but try not to squish my stomach too much.
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My partner and I do quite a few different ones, but I felt the same way as you when he would lay on top of me! So paranoid! So we adapted a little where he is sitting up on his knees (I'm laying on my back still, with a little pillow underneath) & if I feel up to it I put my legs on his shoulders, if not then just at his sides. That way he's not on my belly at all & he loves the view. It's not exactly the same, but it feels great!
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Its all up to what makes you comfortable mama
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Well I'm sure every couple is slightly different with their positions so it's hard to say but I think you would be able to feel it if he is " squishing" the baby too much. I think if you're fine then the baby's fine but maybe your dr can give you a more straightforward answer.  (Sorry I'm not much help)
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