Thanks ladies feeling a little less paranoid now! think ill give some of these a try
Honestly, doggy is best for us! Sometimes we do the one that aurora 95 said, or me on top. But with doggy I can put a pillow under my belly and it feel so good, and no pressure on baby
Try laying on your side with him behind you. It feels a little better since you're still laying down and relaxing rather than on top of him. :)
My midwife said what ever position is most comfortable for me, but try not to squish my stomach too much.
My partner and I do quite a few different ones, but I felt the same way as you when he would lay on top of me! So paranoid! So we adapted a little where he is sitting up on his knees (I'm laying on my back still, with a little pillow underneath) & if I feel up to it I put my legs on his shoulders, if not then just at his sides. That way he's not on my belly at all & he loves the view. It's not exactly the same, but it feels great!
Its all up to what makes you comfortable mama
Well I'm sure every couple is slightly different with their positions so it's hard to say but I think you would be able to feel it if he is " squishing" the baby too much. I think if you're fine then the baby's fine but maybe your dr can give you a more straightforward answer. (Sorry I'm not much help)