who could be the father of my child

[lala1009]

I have been married for 2 years but the last couple of months have been rough with my husband and he just completely changed and ignored me. I started to get depressed and found myself very lonely. So I decided to just keep myself busy goin to the gym or just out with friends instead and in the process  a guy friend of mine and I got close I guess he had gone through somethin similar with his xwife.. but anyways long story short I ended up sleepin with him twice on october 7th and october 10th. but in between i also did sleep with my husband on october 4th, 5th and 6th. also on the 9th. My period began on around the  night of the 24th and i ended my spot bleedin on the 28th goin on to the 29th of october.. so now I found out that im pregnant and me and my husband are doing fine and im scared and dont know what to do... the dr says its a close call and he doesnt know who could be the father,...any opinions please

[lilprincesskerry]

Wow....Im not one to judge.. But one who just lost her 1st child would do anything to have a healthy baby growing inside of her right now.....

[Alba333]

Lala, I know you are probably wondering why I put myself out there so to speak?  Well, I just feel so strongly about this subject that if I can help to save just one unborn child then I will do what ever it takes! It doesn't matter to me what others may say, all that matters is that baby's life that you might end because of panic and not thinking it through.  I really do hope that in sharing my feelings and experiences with you it may help you to make the right decision.........................

[Alba333]

Hi there, I'm so sorry to see that you are in such a dilemma.  All I know is this is a tremendously difficult decision.  You see I don't know how old you are but if you don't have any children then it is very difficult to comprehend how much you can possibly love someone.  All I can say is to not have it can affect you more than you think.  This child is yours no matter who the father is.  You see, when you finally have a child you will feel so differently when looking back you will always wonder what could have been.  You may think yes, get rid of the problem at hand but you may be haunted for years to come.  Don't forget, it is a 50%-50% chance that it is your husband's child.  I think if you told him he would not want you to end the life of a child that could possibly be his.  I hate to admit this but, the reason I'm telling you this is because.......I was in your same shoes 3 years ago and had my son who turned out to be my husband's thank GOD! but regardless I am so glad I kept him, as I'm sitting here emotional as I am. I could not know what life would be without him and at the thought of ending his life just chokes me up so bad! Please! Please! talk to your husband first before you go through with this decision! Or if you don't want to tell him, wait till after the baby is born this way it would be easier not to make any rash decisions on his and on your part.  Yes please think about it with him if you can you might be very surprised at his reaction..........Don't forget at 28 days there is a heart beat!!!  GOD BLESS!

[lala1009]

hello everyone well, i came to a decision being that ive been bleeding alot and im not feeeling to good with the pregnancy. i went back to my doctor today and he did another sonogram and he told me that if I believed in God that maybe that was a sign.. it was time to make a choice, To keep it or not keep it.. I decided that im not keeping it because i wouldnt be able to be happy all through out the pregnancy, and that would hurt the baby. I would feel extremly guilty and it wouldnt be fair to anyone, the two guys and nor to the baby. after alot of thinking I think its for the best. So may Gob bless me... and may he forgive me for i have sin... :,,(

[bossetina]

hi there just read your post you side on your first post on top you hade you last period on the 24 to the 29 oct  and at the botton post you say on the 22 sept  wich one it  if you last period would  go back in oct 24 to 29 the other may would not be the father but if in sept he could be the father only DNA could tell you

[lala1009]

i had my last period from 22nd of september -29