who could be the father of my child

[lala1009]

I have been married for 2 years but the last couple of months have been rough with my husband and he just completely changed and ignored me. I started to get depressed and found myself very lonely. So I decided to just keep myself busy goin to the gym or just out with friends instead and in the process  a guy friend of mine and I got close I guess he had gone through somethin similar with his xwife.. but anyways long story short I ended up sleepin with him twice on october 7th and october 10th. but in between i also did sleep with my husband on october 4th, 5th and 6th. also on the 9th. My period began on around the  night of the 24th and i ended my spot bleedin on the 28th goin on to the 29th of october.. so now I found out that im pregnant and me and my husband are doing fine and im scared and dont know what to do... the dr says its a close call and he doesnt know who could be the father,...any opinions please

[Grandmatobe]

Make sure they take another blood test on Friday, so they can compare the results.  Your hcg should double between today and Friday.  Let us know the numbers when you get today's results, ok?

[lala1009]

i took the home test yesterday, and today i had the blood work done and they showed me my nugget on the sonogram...

[Grandmatobe]

And, when was your last period prior to October 24th?

[Grandmatobe]

Did you take a home pregnancy test or a blood test at the doctor's office?

[lala1009]

hi, thanks for answering.. well i got my first sonogram done today 11/4/09 and he said it was too early to determine how many weeks i was... i go back on 2 weeks.. i deft want to keep my baby regardless of the father but its just so hard to figure out what to do...

[Grandmatobe]

When did you test positive for the pregnancy?  It would be almost impossible to know who the father is in this situation.  Since you appeared to have bleeding for 4 days, I would be inclined to have the doctor run two blood tests, two days apart, and see if your hormone levels are rising appropriately.  It's possible you got a positive test, but with the bleeding, you may have had a chemical pregnancy, hence the bleeding.  I would definitely want to know if my levels were doubling, before getting too stressed out about this other issue.  Make sure it is a good viable pregnancy first, and then wait to have a DNA test to determine paternity.