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mum saying nasty stuff :'(

I swear my mum doesn't think before she speaks!! I understand her and my boyfriend don't get on but we're having a child together! I just got home from seeing him and she says to me she hates him more and more everyday and wishes he was dead.

all because I'm going to drive him to work in the morning.. he pays for my petrol so I dont mind!

She doesnt think about how I feel. I love him,  he treats me great. Just because they don't get one shouldn't mean I have to be dragged in the middle.. I just can't believe she saod that :'(
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Im sorry your going threw that.. i wemt threw kind of the same thing with my fiance so we moved into a apartment together and.i.limited how often i talked to my mom just to shiw her that i was serious about my relationship and now they get along and my mom and him actually have conversations. It took about a year but once my mom realized that i was with him for good she started to.except him into the family she even.calls him to plan stuff for me and our kids
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I'm sorry to hear that and I can definitely understand why it would upset you. Have you tried lettinf her know how much it upsets you? Remind her that you are pregnant and even if she doesn't like him she should be mindful of telling you those things while you're pregnant with her grandchild.
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Bump :(
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