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Am I in the right or is he in the right?
This is me and the boy I likes convo on facebook...-
I texted him "Do you like me?"
me:
helloo
Him:
hey i got your text
look i like you, its just that i like you when were talking over chat, you act completely different when were out
me:
i do
?
i dont mean to..
im sorry
Him:
its okay
me:
r sure?
r u**
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Him (next day):
what the hell ?
i thought we were atleeast friends ??
Me:
well your the 1 who said you thought u loved me...then u kissed me...then wen i got drunk and rang u...said i loved u etc we hardly talked after that....then i ask u do u like me u said "i like you, but i like u wen we r on chat, we then i askd lily to tlk to u and u said u dont like me and u cudnt even explain how i act different..
Him:
so because you was a totally different person when i met you and i didnt like it , im a bad person ? and because i didnt wanna hurt your feelings by explaining to you how aggressive and nasty you sounded when we met up i should be called a player?
Me:
did i say ur a bad person? and how am i nasty and aggressive? its called joking around. and well i feel like u played with my feelings
Him:
and i never said to her i didnt like you , and she wouldent say something to you that isnt true , youve come up with that on your own
Me:
excuse you. no i didnt
Him:
you know what i actually hate you. why would you start bitching about me to people if you 'love' me what absolute bollucck is that
your such a terrible person
Me:
right ok. thats nice.
and all i said is i feel like i got played.. and well...you obv never loved me. so i guess we r equal on that one.
and yes. i would rather you tell me HOW I act diff than lie and not tell me.
Him:
i never asked if you would prefer that, and i didnt lie, i just didnt tell you
and i wasent gonna call somone i liked aggressive and violent was i ?
Me:
i kno! but i still wuda preferd it and im not always like that! i am only like that wen im messing around guess i shud just stop messing around
and well...you cuda said something like "stop doing that please" or somthing...
Him:
if aany thing youve acted to be some kind person ever since we started talking , i should of noticed that you was faking it when you randomly told me to grow up because i was busy for five minuites
(^ I thought he was ignoreing me because we have have had an agrgument before....I told him to grow up & stop ignoreing me.)
Me:
OMFG! im not faking anything thank yo very much!
Him:
welll your one person on chat and a completely different one in treal life, surely your putting one of them on
Me:
i guess i am aggressive all the time cos the school wants me to go to anger management.
look am sorry for 'acting' different..yea..? but I dont mean to. maybe i was nicer to u cos i LIKED u...
Him:
i was right about saying i liked you from text convosations was a bad idea, if i knew you was the type of person to start calling me a player to my friends and saying that ive made you cry and that i wouldent of continued talking to you , i mean when you sent that thing to me by accident i thought i was just being paranoif
(^was askin my friend for help cos i didnt wana lose him and i sent the message to HIM by mistake..and i didnt tell him mates anything i ony told my mate alex that I felt like he played me..then alex told him :L)
him:
paranoid*
me:
but i FEEL like u played me..i mean one min..you like me then i asked Lily to tlk to u...and she told me that you said no, u dont like me becouse im diff in person. and i only told alex...and ok. i kno i was wrong to do that. sorry. i told u....i was askin my friend what i shud do cos i didnt wana loose u...and then i did start to fall for u...but it was prob just a faze i duno.. im sorry for bitching and i acc am aggressive at times...but im not nasty am i? and i have never hit you...ur like...1 of the ppl i have never hit..
Him:
i just see you hitting people and shouting at people alot and i reeaaaly dont like it , and what do you mean i asked lily to talk to me
me:
ooooh....it either cos they make fun of my accent by copyin it and saying stuff that i dont pernounce right e.g. her, hair and i say mirror differently they say...or they take my tie...or say something that annoys me... but i will stop hitting and shouting..
and i meant i said i liked u but things arnt as good...and asked her to talk to u she said ok...
then she said she wasnt rly gettin aythin outa u and i asked what were u sayin and she said "Well he's currantly playing xbox if tht explains enifing xxx" and then i went "ooooh :L haha so nothing? :L"
she went "Yep pretty much xx"
and i go ":L boys and their games :L"
then after a while i asked did u say anythin and she said-
"Well he said no cos ur like different in person n tht he doesn't actually no u xx"
and we havent talked since....I reaally like this boy...but I feel like he played me :/ I needed to get some weight of my chest and Alex is like...one of my besties...so I talked to him...but he went and told Craig (the boy i like) everything to put him in his place and tell him off :/ I duno....who is in the wrong? me or him? xx thank you!!
I texted him "Do you like me?"
me:
helloo
Him:
hey i got your text
look i like you, its just that i like you when were talking over chat, you act completely different when were out
me:
i do
?
i dont mean to..
im sorry
Him:
its okay
me:
r sure?
r u**
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Him (next day):
what the hell ?
i thought we were atleeast friends ??
Me:
well your the 1 who said you thought u loved me...then u kissed me...then wen i got drunk and rang u...said i loved u etc we hardly talked after that....then i ask u do u like me u said "i like you, but i like u wen we r on chat, we then i askd lily to tlk to u and u said u dont like me and u cudnt even explain how i act different..
Him:
so because you was a totally different person when i met you and i didnt like it , im a bad person ? and because i didnt wanna hurt your feelings by explaining to you how aggressive and nasty you sounded when we met up i should be called a player?
Me:
did i say ur a bad person? and how am i nasty and aggressive? its called joking around. and well i feel like u played with my feelings
Him:
and i never said to her i didnt like you , and she wouldent say something to you that isnt true , youve come up with that on your own
Me:
excuse you. no i didnt
Him:
you know what i actually hate you. why would you start bitching about me to people if you 'love' me what absolute bollucck is that
your such a terrible person
Me:
right ok. thats nice.
and all i said is i feel like i got played.. and well...you obv never loved me. so i guess we r equal on that one.
and yes. i would rather you tell me HOW I act diff than lie and not tell me.
Him:
i never asked if you would prefer that, and i didnt lie, i just didnt tell you
and i wasent gonna call somone i liked aggressive and violent was i ?
Me:
i kno! but i still wuda preferd it and im not always like that! i am only like that wen im messing around guess i shud just stop messing around
and well...you cuda said something like "stop doing that please" or somthing...
Him:
if aany thing youve acted to be some kind person ever since we started talking , i should of noticed that you was faking it when you randomly told me to grow up because i was busy for five minuites
(^ I thought he was ignoreing me because we have have had an agrgument before....I told him to grow up & stop ignoreing me.)
Me:
OMFG! im not faking anything thank yo very much!
Him:
welll your one person on chat and a completely different one in treal life, surely your putting one of them on
Me:
i guess i am aggressive all the time cos the school wants me to go to anger management.
look am sorry for 'acting' different..yea..? but I dont mean to. maybe i was nicer to u cos i LIKED u...
Him:
i was right about saying i liked you from text convosations was a bad idea, if i knew you was the type of person to start calling me a player to my friends and saying that ive made you cry and that i wouldent of continued talking to you , i mean when you sent that thing to me by accident i thought i was just being paranoif
(^was askin my friend for help cos i didnt wana lose him and i sent the message to HIM by mistake..and i didnt tell him mates anything i ony told my mate alex that I felt like he played me..then alex told him :L)
him:
paranoid*
me:
but i FEEL like u played me..i mean one min..you like me then i asked Lily to tlk to u...and she told me that you said no, u dont like me becouse im diff in person. and i only told alex...and ok. i kno i was wrong to do that. sorry. i told u....i was askin my friend what i shud do cos i didnt wana loose u...and then i did start to fall for u...but it was prob just a faze i duno.. im sorry for bitching and i acc am aggressive at times...but im not nasty am i? and i have never hit you...ur like...1 of the ppl i have never hit..
Him:
i just see you hitting people and shouting at people alot and i reeaaaly dont like it , and what do you mean i asked lily to talk to me
me:
ooooh....it either cos they make fun of my accent by copyin it and saying stuff that i dont pernounce right e.g. her, hair and i say mirror differently they say...or they take my tie...or say something that annoys me... but i will stop hitting and shouting..
and i meant i said i liked u but things arnt as good...and asked her to talk to u she said ok...
then she said she wasnt rly gettin aythin outa u and i asked what were u sayin and she said "Well he's currantly playing xbox if tht explains enifing xxx" and then i went "ooooh :L haha so nothing? :L"
she went "Yep pretty much xx"
and i go ":L boys and their games :L"
then after a while i asked did u say anythin and she said-
"Well he said no cos ur like different in person n tht he doesn't actually no u xx"
and we havent talked since....I reaally like this boy...but I feel like he played me :/ I needed to get some weight of my chest and Alex is like...one of my besties...so I talked to him...but he went and told Craig (the boy i like) everything to put him in his place and tell him off :/ I duno....who is in the wrong? me or him? xx thank you!!
because I still have feelings for him and I would do anything for him.. :/
I am tryin to move on..and just when i think im over him I see him looking at me or my friend said he was talking about me or I think of him and then I realise I still like him ALOT.. and I get that...but he is the 1st boy i have actually cryed over or cared about...the others where just...not for me :/ I duno...and when he kissed me it was a surprise I had no idea he was gona do it :/
I am tryin to move on..and just when i think im over him I see him looking at me or my friend said he was talking about me or I think of him and then I realise I still like him ALOT.. and I get that...but he is the 1st boy i have actually cryed over or cared about...the others where just...not for me :/ I duno...and when he kissed me it was a surprise I had no idea he was gona do it :/
Umm, because he was trying not to upset you, or trying to get something from you?
Sweetheart, MOVE ON. He doesn't owe you anything, and he's decided for himself, you are not the girl for him. Why are you making him say things that will hurt you?
Sweetheart, MOVE ON. He doesn't owe you anything, and he's decided for himself, you are not the girl for him. Why are you making him say things that will hurt you?
yes, but we have met more than once and he goes to my school....the 1st couple of times he was ok with me...It's just I have a short fuse :/ and if he didnt like me then why did he say he loved me and kissed me? :/
I agree that neither is right here, you're just different.
He likes girls who are sweet and positive, and you sound like you're more sarcastic and negative.
I don't think it's "playing you" to think he likes you on the internet, then meet in person, and he decides you're not his type, and then he decides not to further the relationship.
That's just . . .meeting someone for the first time and realizing you don't mesh.
He likes girls who are sweet and positive, and you sound like you're more sarcastic and negative.
I don't think it's "playing you" to think he likes you on the internet, then meet in person, and he decides you're not his type, and then he decides not to further the relationship.
That's just . . .meeting someone for the first time and realizing you don't mesh.
I wouldn't say anyone is "right" per se; sounds like a bunch of teenage drama.
Not trying to be rude, but......that is my opinion.
Move on and quit interacting.
Not trying to be rude, but......that is my opinion.
Move on and quit interacting.
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