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What would ya'll do??

My husband has been acting so different lately. Here lately he's been very distant, I feel like he's becoming someone I don't know anymore.  He's been drinking alot and talking different to me and acting different.  I don't know if it's because he's been so stressed lately, but I'm starting to feel like he doesn't want me anymore or anything to do with me. I feel ugly and like a whale. I'm getting so tired of feeling like this. I have no friends that I can just sit there and talk to and get things off my chest. Would ya'll just let it blow over? Maybe I'm just an emotional wreck.
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Your welcome sweetie it ***** when they act like that and childish but once you start getting closer reality hits them have you tried to talking to him and let him know how you feel I had to do the same with mine
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Yes so does my husband.  We have 98 days till our son is here and seems like the closer it gets the different he is getting.
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He says he so excited for our son to get here and yes this is our first. I don't know your probably right! Hopefully things will go back to somewhat normal when our son gets here! Thank you missmossyoak92!
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My fiance is the same way he use to never drink that much an now everyday he is having beer an acting different. Idk if its cause I am so close to giving birth or what but I'm not liking it either. He's always mumbling things under his breath. I hate it.
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We hardly ever get to watch a movie together he's always busy.  And i try to cuddle but he don't like too. When he gets home he usually just sits down in his chair and watches tv. Hard to talk to a man when he's watching tv. Lol I'm probably just over reacting with this.  These hormones have me all out of wack. Lol
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If this is yall's first baby he's going to be stressed becoming a father brings on alot not saying a mother Don't but we become a mommy as soon as those lines come up my hubby was the same way as time is getting closer and plus this is his 2nd baby my first yeah he drinks but not like he used to he's so involved and so read for daughter to be here so hun don't think it's you because men handle things differently he will come around give him time :)
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I don't know what to do anymore.  It gets old. He doesn't ever really talk to me anymore.  When i text him he usually don't text me back when he is at home. We usually don't see each other all day. He works two jobs and I work from 9:30 am to 7:30pm every day except the weekend and i stay up till after 1 every night just to spend time with him.. since he don't get off till after 11 every night. It's taking a toll on us. I want him to quit one of the jobs but he won't. I just want to feel like he loves me like he used to. Ughh.
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My fiance has picked up drinking and sometimes smoking again. Even though he's said he'd stop a million times.. anyway... maybe he feels overwhelmed? Just sit down and talk about what's on your mind. I know horomones are crazy ridiculous sometimes, but it's best if y'all talk. Watch a movie and cuddle or something.
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i feel the same way .
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