Does shelike me does she not

[johnwallace]

I meet a very nice s korean women about 3 weeks ago. We talked on the phone at least 4 times and for at least 2 to 3 hours each time. We have very positive conversations about various topics all good. I am 51 she is 46 1/2. The last time I talked toher was almost a week ago All the phone calls where initiated by myself. Again we talk and laugh about things she even asked what I like about her. I told her she is very beutiful. She has a 16 yo son and in the processof a divorce , her husband left her in 2007. she works 6 days a week 11 hours a day. I have not herd from her for 5 days now. we normally talk every few nights. My question with all this would you say she likes me? I am leary to ask her though I get the impression she does. We cant seem to get a daste together due to her long hours, She is done work early on the 4th and I am hoping to get together with her. But She is not calling me. there where no bad things said so I am confused,


HELP
john

[PromisedLand]

I believe imanaddict and teko hit the nail on the head.  The insecurities will kill (not literally)
you.


Jim

[teko]

Yep, me too, she is busy. But what concerns me is your concern after only a week. It sounds desperate. She is either busy or has family issues that are taking up her time. I see nothing in your post that would indicate she lost interest.  Call her and ask her? Quit letting your mind fill with insecurities. Communication is the first and most important tool when developing or maintaining a relationship.

[imanaddict]

The first thought that comes to mind is she's busy working! She works 6 days a week, 11 hours a day and might just be too tired to talk on the phone every day for hours on end. Have you met this woman and gone on any dates yet, or is your relationship strictly by phone?

[specialmom]

I think you received some very good advice above.  It is true that some women assume early on that a man will make the initiative.  I'd go ahead and call, ask her out for a casual date and gage her interest from that.  Good luck

[johnwallace]

j

[mayflowers]

Some women are afraid of calling men.  They like the men to call them.  It could be her culture however I know American women like this too.  It's called being "old fashioned" however to be honest, I'm like that too.  I don't like to call men unless I'm in an exclusive relationship with them.

Why don't you ask her out for lunch and see what she says?  Give it one more try.  If she says no or beats around the bush, then take that as a "No" and "not interested".  Then move on.  Don't waste any more time.  

She might say yes and then you two can get to know each other better.

If she says No or seems distant and disinterested on the date, just move on.  Don't waste more time with someone with someone who can't or doesn't want to be with you.  There are women out there that will want you.  Find one of those women if this one doesn't work out.

She might not be in the best place for a relationship with all that she has going on.

Good luck.

[penswriter]

The only one who can answer that is the woman.