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Extremely depressed after breakup
Hey guys i wanted to ask a question and this is my first time on a website asking for help lol (im kinda desperate right now) anyway, my girlfriend has recently asked for a break from our relationship after dating for 2 and a half years. And i love this woman with all my heart but she wants to work on herself because she is very depressed and i have seen her cry manyyy times because life is so hard. The break started 3 days ago and she barely wants to talk to me, she stated that theres no other guy and that she loves me and values our " friendship" but have i been friend zoned? Ive been good to her so its killing me that she can just forget about me that easily and block me out her mind....i cant sleep and now i barely eat. Please help me
I agree with Lourdes . Make the break. If she cared about you as much as you care for her she wouldn't be behaving like that with other guys. Sounds like shes stringing you along.
You don't want her feeling alone when she needs you? Are you kidding? This is the SAME girl who just dumped you........correct? Oh my.....I am thinking therapy would benefit the both of you.
Well, it's great you have morals and such, but this relationship sounds a bit co-dependent in my opinion. You know it is unhealthy to see her, but yet you are going to do it anyways. That's your choice.
I understand you love her, but can and is she really there for you? She went on a trip, had fun with other guys and basically flung it in your face. Is that her "loving" you? Yet you continue to feel the "need" to be there for someone who treats you like that? What happened to her needing a break and being depressed?
Maybe you both need help? The whole situation reaks of co-dependency.
I understand you love her, but can and is she really there for you? She went on a trip, had fun with other guys and basically flung it in your face. Is that her "loving" you? Yet you continue to feel the "need" to be there for someone who treats you like that? What happened to her needing a break and being depressed?
Maybe you both need help? The whole situation reaks of co-dependency.
And yes i hang with family and friends, go to gym etc but im attentive because i have morals and i believe that if youre truly love some you will do whatever it takes to make them happy
I hurts not seeing her :/ i know its wrong or unhealthy for me to see her...but i care ALOT about her still :( and idk if some people are wondering this but im not in this for looks lol idc about how a person looks but before things were bad i met a nice girl that stole my heart and i instantly fell in love, i just dont want her feeling alone when she needs me, ive always been there for her you know? And during the relationship i was happy with her and in love like never before..she wants to meet in an hour
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