Feeling unloved-:(

[Jasmin2014]

Hey!Me and my faience been together about 2 years and we have 9 months baby and after I have baby our sex life is completely changed, we use to have sex twice a day and almost every night   but now once a week and I talk to him how I feel and he said he gets tired cuz he have to wake up in the morning to go to work but everything was the Sam before the baby! he has to wake up early morning  but we still do it ever nights!:( I'm so sad I'm not attract him any more after the baby ?he doesn't even want to sit next to me anymore whenever his home he play game all day utill he have to go to bed ! Any advice please!

[DeviantLoner]

Unfortunately I'm going through the same thing. I dated my ex boyfriend for 2 years we got into this big falling out after we found out I was pregnant and decided to abort :'( . My ex girlfriend ended up back in the picture and we have been dating again going on 2 years (my magic number) we also moved across the map together and I haven't though about my ex boyfriend in over a year and a half and just earlier this week she asked me a question pertaining to sex and my ex boyfriend was and still is the answer (oh I feel horrible) but he and I haven't really any contact but since she asked that question I cant stop thinking about him and he recently went to Huston with a female friend of his and it made my blood boil so badly. Just the thought of him being with another woman drives me mad although I am in love my girl im starting to have doubts if I have commitment issues or im still in love with him or just one big straight lesbian mess.

[Jasmin2014]

Hey thanks for your comment ! Yes he have a lot of to think about like he have another 2 kids with his x and lots of drama. I know he worried  about that but i want him to show me more love not only sex more romance and etc,..I'm the one who taken care of out baby more since he have to work all the time and if he realy want to we will have time for anything I just hate this felling like fell like all this change is its because the baby ? I didn't feel less love for him  or anything I feel even more sexually with him than before !but like u said I guess it's normal  to feel  this way ! Anyways thanks again for you kind worlds it means alots !

[Jasmin2014]

Hey thanks for your comment ! Yes he have a lot of to think about like he have another 2 kids with his x and lots of drama. I know he worried  about that but i want him to show me more love not only sex more romance and etc,..I'm the one who taken care of out baby more since he have to work all the time and if he realy want to we will have time for anything I just hate this felling like fell like all this change is its because the baby ? I didn't feel less love for him  or anything I feel even more sexually with him than before !but like u said I guess it's normal  to feel  this way ! Anyways thanks again for you kind worlds it means alots !

[thirdtimemum]

This is a common reality after having a baby for many couples, including  myself. You go from having the sexual freedom of only having to worry about you two, and them comes baby that makes three. A baby is very demanding work, and can wear both mother and father out. Your fiancé probably feels the pressure of working to support you both and is worn out, and you probably feel worn out too with nightly feelings, and caring for baby throughout the day. I know it's hard, but don't take it personally, I too know how you feel, my partner and I went from having sex 2 times a day down to about once a week now after having our son who is 20 months old. But that's ok for us, as we are both so worn out each day, neither of us takes it personally, we often joke about it to tell you the truth!  As baby gets older you will find you both have more time and energy to put into each other, like sex, and it can go back to old times. If it worries you this much, arrange a dinner date and get bubs looked after so you and your fiancé can have some special time together. But really, this is a normal thing to experience after having a baby, so don't let it bother you too much.