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i am a window for 3yrs old now, i have three adourable children aged, 3,5.8. my new boyfriend love them so much. but my problem is i think he is cheating on me, because he dont want me to through his cellphone, he always swicht it off or leave it in the car when coming to my place. i love him so much, but this thing is hurting me more every time it happen.


i try to talk about it, but he is always telling me that sms is just an sms. they can be misread and misintrepreted. i am tired of the same answer PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!
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I wouldn't be able to ignore that. It doesn't make any sense why he would turn it off or leave it outside. It also sounds like you saw something in his phone that raised a red flag. While its true things can be misconstrued in text messages if that was the case a very easy explanation would have worked. I wouldn't trust him but that's me. Is he otherwise shady as well? Does he have children of his own?
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It has all the signs of him being unfaithful and untrustworthy.If he had nothing to hide he wouldn,t be as secretive as he,s being with the mobile phone.You need to get to the bottom of this soon.If he is cheating he could be putting you at risk of STD,s.Be careful and have a long talk to him and sort this out.All the best.
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yeah I will leave him alone..if he cant be honest with you..then you dont need him..I know you need company..but if your asking him a simple question he cannot answer honestly then something is wrong...if the little things you ask him seem so offensive towards him just imagine if its something bigger...you know God give us signs...when something is not good for our life...its us who has to listen before things get out of hand...you have three bueatiful children...consentrate on them..and what you once had with your husband...things will get better...
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