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2146732 tn?1418849107

Not really a ? Just wow.

As you all know I come here with my issues reguarding my fiancé & his childs mother, well this isn't exactly about him our any issues reguarding us. I had this issue with the mither messaging me on fb&i couldn't the life of me figure out how(more or less why)she was messaging me being as though I have her and him blocked from my fb page. Him because she made his fb and really controls it. I dont know why I never thought about it,but it turns out that she had made another page just to send me messages. I had mentioned and shown my fiancé the.messages& it had caused us a few disagreements. But she some how ended up telling him about the other page she gad made. Idk what.her problem is? I just read the.messages I never responded to them. My fiancé says he can't have a covwrsation with her without her bringing me up. (not even a conversation about his child). Thats a mess. He.thinks shes obssed with me. My whole point is why go through all this trouble to try to get under my skin? What is the point?
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Exactly as SM has stated.  

Ignore this and she will eventually stop.  
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Getting under your skin is the point D.  Here's what I'd do... I'd turn her FB page over to their authorities and say tell them that she is an annoyance.  Form there, causally bring it up with the next cop you see.  Maybe your city is too big for that, but that garbage would get smashed in a second here....
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2146732 tn?1418849107
I have already mentioned it to my fiancé. Supposedly she has moved on but apparently she hasn't. I don't respond. I just laugh. I have reported but it was before I realized she had a whole seperate page. Oh well maybe shell get over herself&leave me alone. Thanks
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Hi there.  Well, when you aren't over someone and they are with someone else, it is not unusual to become semi obsessed with the new person.  Not that it is good to do but just not unusual.   She hasn't moved on yet but I am sure she will eventually.

Can you not report her messages to facebook?  You have her blocked and she created a new account to contact you.  Certainly that must be forbidden.  I would contact them and block the new account.

And people will continue to try to get under someone's skin as long as they are able.  So, don't respond to it.  Don't mention it to your boyfriend.  Ignore it completely.  

good luck
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