Also, were you still staying at his mom and dad's place ? That can be stressful and maybe you both need a change? In any event, it sounds like you needed a break, and so i'm glad your folks were glad to be of help to you and your baby. I'm glad to hear you have their support for a holiday or the long term.
In order to make an informed suggestion or give advice, we would have to know about not only the one instance of "sour and dirty" but also , how your relationship has developed over time. Whether there are any mental illnesses or addictions that have not been dealt with (if they are not being dealt with they have been enabled) It is essential in any and all relationships that bad behavior is dealt with each and every instance. It might be a problem with communication, which can be helped if both parties are willing, but in order for anything to get "fixed" or have a change made, there must be a willingness to change, in order to achieve results. I hope you can get back to us, and fill in the blanks. I'm glad you found the forum. and hope we can help.
"Sour and dirty?" What exactly happened?