Is he into me or just playing games with me?

[yankee_girl]

I met this guy about 2 weeks ago, hes 21 and im soon to be 19. Ever since i met him i reallly like him, we go out often, and when were toghter he always shows me affection like holding hands, kissing me, calling me babe and all that i love it and all but when were not hanging out i don't hear from him. Last sunday we had a great time and then i won't hear from him until monday night at 10 pm. Its like he disspears for a few days.  When im with him all he does is text (yeah i know rude!) So why can't he text me? I'm not saying text me every second of the day but just a text to say have a good day i just got to work or whatever but theres nothing from him. Is it me overreacting or would other girls feel the same way?

If i text him first just to say hey he won't answer me back for about a hour or more, but when hes with more he answers eveyone else back right aaway. He says hes into me, he does want to see me but he never wants to have contact when were not seeing each other. He never calls me or anything.

Today we hung out and we were souppose to hang out all day but he said his grandma called and he needs to take her somewhere that was kindda far ( about 45mins) away he said when he gets back we would hang out. Two hours later i get a text from him saying he got a flat tire and waiting for the tow truck to come and fixt it so about an hour later i text him to see whats up if his tire got fixed and its been almost an hour and a half and still nothing.

Am i over reacting or not? What could be the reason why he does this?

[yankee_girl]

I'm not clingy. I only texted him first like maybe 3 times in 2 weeks. I won't show him that i miss him and all i feel it but i deff won't let him know that. I'm just wondering if most guys are like this when you first meet them or is it just him.

Kate&Reau. thank you for the advice

[reau]

i have exactly, just exactly the same situation in the texting part. the only difference is, i met him 2months
ago. he became my boyfriend but then i broke up with him but still we are friends and do the same things we usually do when were together. nothing change, same US but no commitment. maybe guys are really like that by nature. its too early to tell. we just have to get use to it. what i do with the situation?  i dont demand. i dont complain. even if he
keeps on texting when we are together and when were not, he doesnt text that often.
actually, he waits for me to text first. if i were you, seize the moment. dont mind if he
is not texting or calling you that often and if he doesnt have much time for you, just enjoy the moment when you are with him. never nag. show him ur a cool girl and go with the flow. dont expect. expect leads to disappointment and frustration. u just met him.
give yourselves more time to get to know each other. show him that you are not bothered
if he doesnt get intouch with you but in your part, get intouch with him. put in actions what u feel. if u care for him, then show him. but dont expect he will return what your showing since guys are guys. they may not be showy but then, you cant read their mind.
that guy might be intersted with you or not, we'll never know. bottom line, enjoy every
moment when your with him. dont analyze too much or react. just let it flow. when your with him, make sure you make him feel that he is gonna miss u big time when youre not together. :D

[heatherlynn22]

if you keep texting him like that he's liable to get scared away. you've only known him for 2 weeks. just calm down. if he had to take his grandma somewhere and got a flat don't harass him. give him time. when he's ready to hang out he will text/call you. that's a good way to chase off a guy.you seem to clingy and needy.

[KATE535]

Don't expect too much from a person you met only two weeks ago. Relationships take much longer than that to develop, and it's unlikely there's love at such an early stage even if you feel something for eachother.
I think you're over-anaylising and over-reacting because it's only been two weeks since you met. His tyre may have genuinely been flat. He may also be a little unreliable, but it's too early to tell.
I would not worry about things too much yet and just see how things develop.
Good Luck with the relationship.