Oh, I feel the same way, my hubby has tons of wonderful amazing qualities as well, and while the things I mentioned get under my skin, I wouldn't call them bad "qualities" per se...just quirks and habits. I have plenty myself that drive him nuts.
My FAVORITE thing about hubby is his sense of humor. Ours are very similar, so we find the same things funny most of the time. We sort of "razz" one another about our pet peeves, and get a mutual laugh out of it.
Like when he lets out one of his "BURPS"....I'll look at him and say "really?" And we'll giggle. Same with the cup thing...I pointed it out to him once, and he laughed, because he never realized he did it. The next day, ever cup in our closet was lined up on the counter with a note that said ("find the water cup"). I was lmao!
Ahh. ha. Well, the good thing when 'people' (AKA hubby) gossips . . . it is only fun to gossip if someone is listening. They do it less when we act uninterested.
Yes, my husband has many wonderful qualities. They outweigh the bad for sure.
However, I've decided that I'm the kind of person that will have pet peeves with ANYONE I live with. I think I'm just irritable. LOL
I've got pet peeves for my beloved kids too!!
Here is another one for both husband and kids. Why am *I* the ONLY one that knows where things are? How many times a day do I hear "Where's X?" My brain must be big with all I have to store in it that no one else in my house has to.
Other than my above complaint.......don't really have any more "pet peeves." The good points about him are overwhelmingly high.
@specialmom.......was referring to my husband. :) Just used the word "people" to be more polite to my sweet hubby.
Ha ha, so, NG. If you were our neighbors ,. . . it would be YOUR husband I secretly wish would lose the back yard bathroom urge??
Ha, well. Once my husband showed my young son when he was maybe 4 how to pee outside because we were at a place where there were no bathrooms. OMG. It took like 6 months to get my son to stop!! He LoVED it. Gross, man!
I have a male neighbor that pees in his back yard. I'm like 'dude, I can SEE you."
Oh boy...add another pet peeve to my list. LOL
We have almost 15 acres, but still. Use the freakin bathroom! UGH! LOL