WHY DOESNT HE CALL ME BACK???!!

[dorindawils]

hey guys,i have been text chatting with this guy i met online fir a month.we decided to get to know each other by text first so that when we meet we cocnt be like strangers.well we went out on a date last wednesday,he was so kul,cute,gentle,kind.we went to a restaurant later to a bar,i admit i had a lot of wont to drink first time of drinking alcohol so i got a lil tipsy,we went over to his place and he wanted to have sex but i wont lte him,that was when i admitted i am still a virgin.Well truth is during out conversation i had mentioned i have a 2nd reason as to why guys dont wanna be with me which is because i deny them sex if i am not into them or they most be ready to wait you know?well,that explains why am still single.However,this guy didnt text or call the next day but i did in the evening and he was like he was busy,next day i started the chat again but yet he sounded like am disturbing him and he doesnt wanna chat with me.last time i texted him was a mistake sms ,was meant for my roomy,asking where she was partying    but i realised that next day and sent him another text saying am sorry but the mail wasnt for him.well,he didnt reply to anyway ...i like this guy and for a week now i wish he could like me back the way i did him.what can i do guys?i keep thinking about him......HELP ME PLEASEEEEEEE!!!!!

[Monika1985]

Sounds like he just wanted sex. You respected yourself and thats really cool. So lets say you did sleep with him and he still didnt call back. You would feel a lot worse. Besides he tried to take advantage of you while you were drunk. A real man would've taken you home and made sure you were safe then called the next day to see how you're feeling. You cant trust a so called man like that and he's doing you a favor by not calling you. A lady deserves better :)

[Londres70]

Cut your loses and move on.  

Perhaps he got the wrong idea when you went back to his place tipsy, which I wouldn't recommend doing ever again for obvious reasons.  I am not sure if he thought you were "teasing" him.  

[specialmom]

Hi.  Well, he is interested in a physical relationship including sex and when he didn't get that from you and was also told that you are waiting to have sex (which I think is very admirable)----  he realized that you were not a bedroom candidate and is now not interested.  This shows you he may be interested in different things than you.  I'd let it go and see if you can find a more suitable person to date who is on the same page as you.  good luck

[RainLover71]

It appears as though this guy was after one thing and you guys have only just met.How many other girls has he tried this on i wonder.It,s good you didn,t give into him because sadly you would have just been another number in his book of conquests,that,s what it sounds like to me anyway,I hope I,m wrong and I hear that you have feelings for this guy but maybe it,s a good thing for you that he hasn,t got back to you.It could be a sign that it just wasn,t meant to be.