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I have a gf who she is always busy
I have a gf who she is always busy even at time when you call her she do not pick calls . She only attend to me when ever she feels like. Is this really love? And me no matter how busy i am i make sure i give her attention!
I am thinking otherwise!
I am thinking otherwise!
Hey guys.....there's thus girl....we've been together since the past 2 months and we broke up and stuff but we ultimately patched up...today is the 4 day we've not spoken at all...... Our conversation have beeing ending literally in 4 txt and when ever I ask her she's like I was up work! What am I to do....I have fear of losing her
I am thinking about that too at a side but i don't want to think of that or jump to conclusions to quick. Yes it speaks volume but i will wait on her to call or write.
yes we talk on skype before and yahoo chat even gmail etc we cam together . i call her regularly via my mobile to her mobile u know. Just to make our relationship deeper.
Lately her habit not sure of it...
Thank you very much for your advice, i will update whatever happens.And i hope u are doing good! God bless!
yes we talk on skype before and yahoo chat even gmail etc we cam together . i call her regularly via my mobile to her mobile u know. Just to make our relationship deeper.
Lately her habit not sure of it...
Thank you very much for your advice, i will update whatever happens.And i hope u are doing good! God bless!
Well, I would try to talk about this as soon as possible.
Are you sure she isn't seeing someone else or she hasn't change her mind about the relationship? It doesn't make any sense that she would all of the sudden start being too busy to make time for you. Someone who really cares about you will make time for you. The fact that she isn't speaks volumes.
Plus, this is a long-distance relationship so letters, texting, talking on the phone, SKYPE, etc. would be VERY important to do to stay connected. Without that.....the relationship wouldn't really survive in my opinion.
This doesn't sound good.....sorry.
Are you sure she isn't seeing someone else or she hasn't change her mind about the relationship? It doesn't make any sense that she would all of the sudden start being too busy to make time for you. Someone who really cares about you will make time for you. The fact that she isn't speaks volumes.
Plus, this is a long-distance relationship so letters, texting, talking on the phone, SKYPE, etc. would be VERY important to do to stay connected. Without that.....the relationship wouldn't really survive in my opinion.
This doesn't sound good.....sorry.
I am so glad for your supportive answers.
Firstly i want you to understand something. I stay in Ghana and my gf stay in US. It is a long distance relationship and we have been together for almost 2 years now. I love her you, before she gives me attention not to be persial but just recently she started this attitude. Fine if you are busy, that doesn't stop you from picking my calls, write just a simple email, text or etc. She told me she was on business trip fine later i get to know she travel to see her family which she never told me ... things happening that i don't understand and i am a bit confused.
The reason why i am a bit nervous is that i love her so much and i am a kind of person that i like both people in relationship sacrificing to each other. No matter how busy i am i still create time for anything important to me, my gf , close family and friends.
work is important and relationship too is important...
i have not really talk to her on this matter becoz we have not been able to talk.
When she is ready to talk, i will talk to her about this!
Its really bittering my heart at what she is doing but i am keeping myself relax because she has not done it before. And that is why i have throw this out and you all have helped me alot for advices. You are all intelligent and experienced and i hope you are having a happy time with you family!
Have a happy weekend!
I am so glad for your supportive answers.
Firstly i want you to understand something. I stay in Ghana and my gf stay in US. It is a long distance relationship and we have been together for almost 2 years now. I love her you, before she gives me attention not to be persial but just recently she started this attitude. Fine if you are busy, that doesn't stop you from picking my calls, write just a simple email, text or etc. She told me she was on business trip fine later i get to know she travel to see her family which she never told me ... things happening that i don't understand and i am a bit confused.
The reason why i am a bit nervous is that i love her so much and i am a kind of person that i like both people in relationship sacrificing to each other. No matter how busy i am i still create time for anything important to me, my gf , close family and friends.
work is important and relationship too is important...
i have not really talk to her on this matter becoz we have not been able to talk.
When she is ready to talk, i will talk to her about this!
Its really bittering my heart at what she is doing but i am keeping myself relax because she has not done it before. And that is why i have throw this out and you all have helped me alot for advices. You are all intelligent and experienced and i hope you are having a happy time with you family!
Have a happy weekend!
Hi Anna, happy weekend to you and i am so glad and so appreciative that you did write me. Firstly i want you to understand something. I stay in Ghana and my gf stay in US. It is a long distance relationship and we have been together for almost 2 years now. I love her you, before she gives me attention not to be persial but just recently she started this attitude. Fine if you are busy, that doesn't stop you from picking my calls, write just a simple email, text or etc. She told me she was on business trip fine later i get to know she travel to see her family which she never told me ... things happening that i don't understand and i am a bit confused.
The reason why i am a bit nervous is that i love her so much and i am a kind of person that i like both people in relationship sacrificing to each other. No matter how busy i am i still create time for anything important to me, my gf , close family and friends.
work is important and relationship too is important...
Anna, when she really have time to talk to me , i will talk to her on this issue i have that in mind already!
Thank you very much for your supportive letter. God bless you and i hope you are having a nice time with your husband and kid!
The reason why i am a bit nervous is that i love her so much and i am a kind of person that i like both people in relationship sacrificing to each other. No matter how busy i am i still create time for anything important to me, my gf , close family and friends.
work is important and relationship too is important...
Anna, when she really have time to talk to me , i will talk to her on this issue i have that in mind already!
Thank you very much for your supportive letter. God bless you and i hope you are having a nice time with your husband and kid!
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I'm on the same page with Londres. I really want to emphasize what dating is for. You find someone you are attracted to and like to spend time together. During that time, you enjoy yourself but you also look at things realistically to see if the relationship can move to the next level of a more serious commitment. You look for differences you have and how important they are.
I worked hard, had my own seperate things I enjoyed doing, friends, etc. but my then boyfriend, now husband never felt left out. He too was busy with the same kinds of things if we weren't together but if he was longing to feel connected to me or that I loved him, I made it happen. He never doubted where I was at in terms fo where he stood in my life.
You have doubts.
She is not showing you she cares or making you feel important to her. I'd give her a chance to correct it but not hang along long if she doesn't. I agree with Londress that this sounds like a one sided relationship. Who needs or wants that? Plenty of people out there that will appreciate being in a relationship with you. goodluck and peace
I worked hard, had my own seperate things I enjoyed doing, friends, etc. but my then boyfriend, now husband never felt left out. He too was busy with the same kinds of things if we weren't together but if he was longing to feel connected to me or that I loved him, I made it happen. He never doubted where I was at in terms fo where he stood in my life.
You have doubts.
She is not showing you she cares or making you feel important to her. I'd give her a chance to correct it but not hang along long if she doesn't. I agree with Londress that this sounds like a one sided relationship. Who needs or wants that? Plenty of people out there that will appreciate being in a relationship with you. goodluck and peace
Sounds like the relationship is one-sided; you giving more effort or putting more effort in. I am not sure about any "love" per se.
Is this something happening often or has only occured occasionally?
How long have you two been together?
Have you talked to her about this?
If this is her lifestyle you will have to figure out whether it is something you can deal with or not. Perhaps this is something temporary as far her being busy; not sure.
As Kayannaboo has mentioned.....what is she busy doing?
Is this something happening often or has only occured occasionally?
How long have you two been together?
Have you talked to her about this?
If this is her lifestyle you will have to figure out whether it is something you can deal with or not. Perhaps this is something temporary as far her being busy; not sure.
As Kayannaboo has mentioned.....what is she busy doing?
Why is she so busy? Is it work? Well, it is up to you to decide what you can handle. I would expect some balance personally, bearing in mind that the person's work is important but so am I and so is this relationship.
Talk to her and let her know that you admire her work ethic and that you understand that her job matters to her but that you would appreciate some more personal time with her. If she cannot do that, then perhaps you two should part ways.
xoxoxoxoxo Anna
Talk to her and let her know that you admire her work ethic and that you understand that her job matters to her but that you would appreciate some more personal time with her. If she cannot do that, then perhaps you two should part ways.
xoxoxoxoxo Anna
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