Hi, I have a wonderful husband and two lovely kids, I had been married for 10 years now, we are having nice family with out any problems, but these last few years my husband became very busy with his work
he spends all the day at work, once he is at home , he talks less than before when I ask him he says I am thinking about some ideas related to his job, he eats, he has rest and works on his computer at home when he is not tired.
I do not know if my husband is so busy that is why he does not talk a lot with me and does not care about our sex life.
we do make love very rarely, once a month or twice a month only, I found that not much for somebody who loves me, and I am embarassed to let him know about my feeling, what I say usually to him that his work took him away from me and his two kids.
my concern is,
1- Do you think that because he is very busy, he gets tired to do sex with me after that, but the problem even in the week-end he loves working at home on his computer all the time instead of spending the time with me or with his children.
2- my other concern , is I am afraid if he has another woman in his life and he gets what he wants from her that is why once he is at home he is not interested in sex with me.
I am confused, because he is a such nice man, I do not want to say that he might be cheating on me I am not sure if this is the case or just because he is busy with his work.
Please help me to solve this problem, I am lost