Very nice thread life, thanks for starting it!
My goal is to be respectful even when I 100 percent disagree. I tend to think that I know better on certain subjects than the husband. Wow, wouldn't that be annoying? So, to allow him a voice and not be the 'boss'.
I also feel like I can do a better job in showing true appreciation for the life I have. I do consider my family and life a blessing including my husband and I want them to know that rather than getting caught up in the day to day drill in which I forget to show it.
Hi Life 360!
I've a long distance relationship with my husband of 20 yrs. His job requires him to travel to China & work there a month. Romance suffers. He has jet lag so I've learned not to bother him. When he feels rested, it's hard to know. So I guess my Resolution regarding my relationship is to be more astute to the Sensual Timing in life. To have our life be more rewarding in that aspect. Pamela
Also, today I decided I will be the Heroine of my own life. Pamela
The one that would make the most immediate difference in my husband's life is if I were less blase about household clutter.
I also like specialmom's about being respectful. My husband and I get along well, but I can get a tone when irked, and he really hates to hear it. I need to remember that it he hears it harder than I say it. (Same thing happens if he comments that the dog walked in with wet feet and left footprints on the floor. I hear it as personal criticism, and boy do I hate to hear it.)
So, I guess patience with tones of voice, calmness instead of snappishness, and household drudgery, are on my New Year's Resolutions list. You can see which one I feel least thrilled about. lol