should I worry?

[jbloveee]

So as some of you may know, I'm 17 & been with my 19 year old boyfriend for 3 years. I met him when I was 14 & he was 16. Long story short, I cheated on him for a long time on 2010. We broke up for three months on sep.2010. Got together again on dec. 2010. We both hooked up with different people in those 3 months, but now he's telling me he cheated on me after we got together. Which was when I stopped cheating on him. I mean if he did cheat, I don't really know why I should worry when I did the same thing , but him barely admitting it to me , hurts my feelings :/
Now I'm like , did he cheat after without telling me? Cause I know I haven't cheated since april 2011.
Is it possible he has stuff he hasn't told me?

[specialmom]

Drinking age is 21.  I'm just going to  wish you good luck.  I hope things work out for you. peace

[jbloveee]

&+ i'm almost 18 this year so I don't won't be underage .

[jbloveee]

I know. & it was my mistake. Apparently when i'm drunk I think about my angel which leads me to come here & I guess I came across the forum. If I wasn't drunk like i'm not right now, I wouldn't have worried about it. I guess I was just being overly worried & dramatic, but like I said , the past is the past .I need to worry about my future.
I'm not interested in teen forums at the fact that I don't see much there & everyone just seems way young. I'm not saying i'm not young, but I'm more interested in a forum where I see older people post & have more experience. So thank you, but I don't want to change to teen forums

[specialmom]

It is when you are underage.  It is when you come to a web site and post when intoxicated.  anyway, I would check out the teen forums here.  good luck

[jbloveee]

Only cause I got drunk doesn't mean I'm gonna make wrong choices. I still go to school . I know i'm gonna be something in life. Drinking in the weekend or every once in a while isn't that bad.

[specialmom]

Hm.  Not cool to be a drunk 17 year old.  I'm worried about your choices.

We have a teen forum you may be interested in.  good luck

[jbloveee]

We have. I revealed everything to him that time we broke up for 3 months. & I asked him if he had cheated on me he said maybe. I said "you know what? If you did or not, it's the past . At least you're with me now" .
He forgave me, but still has trust issues. It's been almost 2 years i haven't cheated & he still assumes stuff. I heard when they your partner assumes, it's cause they are the one doing it. Although I don't believe that. I trust him 100% , but you just never know if something will happen.
I told him to leave the past in the past cause I can never go back, but he still acts a little childish . He did admit to me that he does trust me, but that's only cause i'm not around guys, but he bets that if I were to be around guys, I would cheat. Which is not true. That doesn't even come to my mind anymore. The thought of kissing or touching any guy is disgusting. I regret every single thing I did to hurt him, so that's how I know I won't do it again.
I'm going to have a serious talk with him & i'm going to make sure everything in the past , stays in the past. & if he loves me he will move forward & make a great future with me :)

[Nighthawk61]

Maybe sit down and make a promise to each other, to reveal to the other, if either of you want to see other people, prior to sleeping with them.  Get real and get honest with each other, and leave the past in the past. It's time to move this relationship into adulthood, and leave childish things in the past. It's time to have values and boundaries in your lives and move this relationship into a new era for you both.  That's what I'd do in your situation.

[jbloveee]

Omg , I kind of don't remember writing this , but I was kind of drunk when I wrote this . I remember taking forever to write this cause I couldn't see straight. So sorry if I sounded dumb . & I think I was worrying for no reason.
But thanks for your answers. :)

[specialmom]

I totally agree with AnnieBrooke.  good luck

[AnnieBrooke]

You do sound 17 and 19.  Try to roll with it, sweetheart.  It will sort itself out; time will reveal if he cheated or wants to be with you or if you want to be with him or not (irregardless of the cheating).  The teens are for that.