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Since having our first child a few weeks ago , my boyfriend and I have not been the best of friends. Mostly everything he do makes me mad. He changed and not in a good way. I don't even like for him to pick up or kiss our son. I hate his attitude. I love him so much but I can't stand him. I hate that I feel this way about him. I want to be with him
and fix our problems but, I'm the only one trying to better things. It hurts my heart because we used to be so close to each other. I can't talk to him about the way I feel because he always get mad and start an arguement. I don't know what to do.
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Hi there.  Well, congrats on the baby.  If these feelings are new and post baby, I'm going to say that you should talk to your doctor about it at your post delivery doctor's appointment.  Post partum is not unusual and the ups and downs and anger you feel seems displaced and could actually be that.  I found having a baby the most wonderful thing I have ever done but also the most difficult.  I had all kinds of emotions post baby.  

I would really consider your hormones are out of whack and ask your doctor for help with this.  And yes, counseling is always a good thing.  good luck
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3149845 tn?1506627771
Hi and welcome. At this point you might consider some counceling. Between you spending more time with the baby and added responsibilities on his part to help out is causing a rift. If your not able to work these issues out youll need some professional help.
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