Gift giving is from the heart and should never feel as if he is outdoing your gift, but what worked for me was a gift certificate to "Eddie Bauer", which is his favorite, classy men's clothing store and or a gift certificate from his favorite place to eat (like a steak house). There are last minute gifts that are great, especially the steak house such as 'Morton's", where you both can enjoy a nice dinner together, maybe for New Years...Good Luck, Judy
See, it is NOT about the gifts. You should have done what was in your heart all along and not worried about matching what he gave you. That is the meaning of Christmas. Peace and joy to you.