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[natalile]

All i can say is a hugh thank you to aall of you for your advise,
aae talked & talked & talked till be for we new it the sun was cummin up, & not a raised voice betwen us. You no the saying the the truth hurts well sometimes you have too hear & hurt for it to work. We both hurt each other last night. Mabey the reason there was no shoutin last night is coz we have both got no 1shoutin left in us
But today has been fantastic.even hen the kids have tested us & played us off against each other e have stood united.
Don't get me wrong its not all ov a sudden its all roses & happy famliys but its a start. alaike a prevous post someone said 16 years is a long time & hez my sole mate. We talked about marrige, the 1 night stands we both had ( even thought they were years ago ) it all has an effect on things & the me been tehonly bread winner is he main isssue hez starting to realise that i need help or we will sink & i don't want that, turns out he don't eva , Enyway just a quick update, were gonna watxh a film & have a cuddle on the sofa
thanks guys 7 i'll keep ya poted
peace vatxxx

[mami1323]

Glad everything is working out.  Keep up the hard work!

[jo929]

I am so glad the famuly is still as one     luck  jo

[Judy246]

Hi Natalie, Sixteen years is worth fighting for, especially when there is love and there you both love each other. Communicate with each other by discussing the problems and discussing how best to confront them and come to a mutual solution (p.s. make sure he gets a job and it will help release the financial stress).

I'm so glad that it's a positive start and we are here for you ok...Judy