Hello,
I am 29 yrl old and have been married for 11 yrs to a wonderful man (he is 37). He is great, we moved to a new country together, together we have achieved a lot, we have plans for the future, have great jobs, and life couldnt be better, I love him.
A few years ago he moved because of work and we only saw eachother every weekend and sometimes saw eachother every two or three weeks. At the time we had problems, I suggested counseling and he declined, I went to counseling alone but it didnt work. He was just not interested in spending time with me so I found someone who wanted to. I regret that decision and still cant forgive myself.
Although I am happy now I still feel the need to have sex with other man, I think it would add some interest to our lives. I have discussed the issue with him and he doesnt understand, I dont want to make a bad decision again but I find myself bored with the routine of my life (all aspects) and I know he is too.
Is this the sacrifice people make to be able to keep their happy marriages? Is this normal? Does it happen to other people?
Thanks for all your help, I am really concerned about my feelings.