Possible Single Parent???

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I'm 21 And I'm 9 weeks pregnant with my first baby. The father and I have had a complicated relationship since the beginning, but he seemed to be happy about the baby. He already has a set of twin boys and is hoping for a girl. But  I haven't heard from him since Christmas and I'm very paranoid.. I'm trying not to stress out about this but it's hard to explain to my family when they ask where he is or anything about our relationship.  Totally not how I imagined my first pregnancy.  I don't know what's going on but I've been trying to get use to the idea of being a single parent. Any other moms dealing  with this possibility?

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Yea, I can get there..the problem is that I'm in Arkansas taking care of my mom and he's in Florida right now with his family. I'm not a big facebook user so I haven't tried that. I've been trying to wait to see if he's just been busy. But I don't know what could be so important that he can't contact me for a week straight...other than something he shouldn't be doing. I think I'm going to try to get in touch with one of his sisters.

[specialmom]

Ugh, do you have transportation where you can go to where he lives?  I guess I'd want some sort of explanation.  Does he have a computer . . .  can you send him an email?  Facebook message?  I am just wondering if you try a couple of different ways to reach him if he ignores that, it is telling.  

It's unfortunate when 'men' (using that word loosely) act like this.  sorry sweetie!

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Yea, I don't know if his phone is off of he's just ignoring it.

[specialmom]

You've tried contacting him and he is not responding?