emotionally abusive??

[angiemari]

I love my boyfriend more than anything but we argue so much!  Also everytime we argue he trys to spin every problem as if its my fault when its not.  He tells me why he ever started talking to me & he constantly accuses me of cheating and lying to him.  I try so hard to show him I don't do anything or go anywhere, I go to work come home, I bring my work schedule to show my boyfriend I call him on every break.  I stopped going out with my friends just because I know I will get questioned when I come home.  My boyfriend is my life he usually treats me with the upmost respect except 4 when we argue.  I know I should leave but I don't want to be without him as crazy as that seems?  I need major advice!

[Caminurse]

I wouldn't say get out of the relationship, if you really love him find out why he acts like this. It has to be a reason.

[RockRose]

I just went and read your profile.

You seem to have a husband,  a fiance and a boyfriend and you are trying very hard to conceive a baby by whatever this relationship really is.

Angie,  this is an ENORMOUS mistake that will make your life - and your baby's life - unbearable if you have a baby by this very controlling man.

Please get out while you can.

[specialmom]

Okay.  You said it . . . but I will agree with you completely.  It DOES sound crazy to want to be with a guy like this.  There is something very wrong here.  I've never dated a controlling person that I had to give up many things in my life for.  I never would as that is not a healthy relationship.  If he is that insecure, something is very wrong.  I am dead serious about that.  And I don't want to scare you but abusive relationships start out that way.  Isolating your partner is the first step in an abusive relationship.  Walking on eggshells or being afraid of his reaction?  Not a good sign at all.  

I'm begging you to reconsider this relationship.  I see from your profile that you are a young girl.  This is no way to live.  You should be enjoying your boyfriend AND friends, work, hobbies and family (with and seperate from him).  Showing him your work schedule?  It just isn't healthy and I beg you to see this for what it is before it is too late.  I wish you the very best of luck.  

[sweetpea03]

Trust is a big part of any relationship. He has to learn to trust you or it will never work out. Don't keep calling him on your breaks and don't stop hanging out with your friends. You both need space for yourselves. He is your boyfriend, but not your whole life. If he can't learn to trust you, then you need to walk away because it will only get worse. It ***** to have to do that, but it is the best thing for you to do... good luck.