irresponsible father

[WhiteJasmineRose3]

So my baby is 3 months old and her father is extremely irresponsible it pisses me off he thinks it is okay to leave the baby in the house while he mows the yard or he will sleep while holding the baby on the couch I made a huge scene and told him if he ever does it again he will never hold the baby without my presence. I am so angry and he sees nothing wrong with sleeping while holding the baby!!! Or drinking while babysitting I seriously am just done explaining he's an idiot and putting his own child at risk. I'm wondering if it's just my idiot husband that's like that or are all dad's like that I really don't know? ?

[sabbylopez]

I sleep with my baby every night and my husband does to im having my third child and both my two are still alive. The only time you shouldn't sleep with a child is when you are completely understand the influence. I agree with the ftm syndrome. Mowing the law yes that is idiotic but sleeping with baby? Sounds like you are easily angered and taking it out on little things.

[proudmommytobe15]

Honestly the chance isn't very high.
I've never seen anyone kill a baby whole sleeping with them on the couch.

[WhiteJasmineRose3]

I just don't want to risk it like why take the chance you know?  

[WhiteJasmineRose3]

I try to be understanding but I'd like my baby to make it past the infant stage while my husband figures out how this parent thing works

[proudmommytobe15]

It sounds like you have ftm syndrome. As long as he's not a crazy rolling sleeper , your baby is fine. You can argue but I've slept with tons of babies on my chest on the couch. They're all living. It's like the luvs commercial with the first kid. Then by the second kid. Calm down. I do think the drinking part is terrible , but the other stuff isn't awful. Tell him to take a minute when he mows the grass or to do it she he doesn't have baby

[proudmommytobe15]

I agree with the first post