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[prettygirl132]

from feb.this year,there is a guy who told my colleguae that i am attractive.he left for one week holiday,when he cameback he started to shower me with compliments,praises,gave all the subtle signs of attraction.everytime he got a chance,he's always make me cheerful.he himself told me that he is happy and i make him happy when i am around.affer few months of continous flirting with me,he told in my face that he likes me.i never flirted back because i was not sure if it was true,but still he's not stopping to give all those signs,there was a time he hold my hand and gave me a soft tap on my back which was gently.we message me  with x at the end  of message.he told me his plans,he was really openened with me.he asked me,he want to have lunch with me in my house,which we did.always there for me to offer his help.i'm worried now because, he is with a girl but apparently he mentioned to me that girl behaving immature,and i 've notice that his face changed,he slightly frown.now i'm confuse,what i'm gonna do?does he has intention to pursue me or what?please help me to analyse the situation. thanks a lot!

[specialmom]

Yes, I sadly agree.  How would you feel if you were the other girl and your boyfriend was showering someone new with attention.  If his girlfriend is not who he wants to be with, maybe he'll break up with her.  And until that happens, I'd not have contact with him.  He's also sent up a red flag for you that he WILL flirt with other girls if you are dating him and he is unhappy with you.  This does not make him great boyfriend material.  good luck

[RainLover71]

Two Timer--Bad news--Not worth it--You deserve better.

[AnnieBrooke]

It does sound like it is time for him to make a choice about the other girl.  You don't want to be involved with him if he has made promises to her.

[Londres70]

Sorry, I had a bit of difficulty understanding the story and the English.  

Let me see if I got it.  He was interested in you, then you became interested in him but he is with another girl?  That worries you?  Correct?  

I wouldn't pursue anything further with this man because he is with someone unless you would like to be "just friends."  If she is not compatible for him, then he should not be with this other girl (woman).  He said this "other girl" is immature.  Sounds like he is trying to draw you into some drama.  

Tell him you are free when he is free.  Until then, I wouldn't get involved in his drama.