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[Ally1414]

So there's this teeny bopper at work that I despise because she is the most disrespectful person I've met in a long time...she talks down to me and I'm 24 and thinks she's the toughest hottest chick out there...I come home many nights frustrated with her rudeness...but for some reason everytime my husband comes to visit I swear he flirts with her...first time he met her he got nervous and did that half *** smile flare the nostrils nervous look and he constantly dings the ******* dinger to get her attention knowing he'll get a rise out of her....is this flirting or is it just me?? He knows how much I don't like her yet he does this all the time and hovers around the front trying to get her attention...today I lost it....I tolf him to not even bother stopping by when I'm working with her because she's a disrespectful ***** and being my husband and all he should have some respect too...shouldn't he?? Is that flirting?? Or am I just PMSing??

[imanaddict]

Is the reason you don't like this girl because of your husband flirting with her? Did you find yourself more upset with her AFTER you noticed this?

I would be highly upset too if my husband came into my job and flirted with my coworkers. He would be barred from coming and then have h3ll to pay at home. It's completely disrespectful to you, so make sure you lay the blame where it belongs...with your hubby. Have a chat with him and let him know your feelings and that it needs to stop. If he's a smart man, he'll listen! If not, God help him! LOL!

[Judy246]

Teeny bopper (lol), I haven't heart that in a very lo ng time! Of course she has an attitude, it comes with the age and one day she's going to meet up with someone who has a bigger attitude than she does and is going to adjust it for her and it sounds as if that is exactly what she needs.

As for your husband situation, your concerns are justifiable, and he behaved unexceptable and desrespectful to dare get nervous or seem flirty around her out of all people and you make sure to tell him. Is she possibly and ex? Does he know her from somewhere and that is why is treats you disrespectful? Hum? I would not let him come to my place of employment, unless it is to just pick me up outside and that is it. We woman have that six sense that tells us when something is wrong or inapropriate and we have to listen to it! If her disrepectful attitude continues, it will need to be addressed immediate to know off of her high horse and don't be afraid to speak your mind to her or your husband when his behavior is inapproriate also. Good Luck, Judy

[Julie359]

You know i would say yes u have a right to be really angry.  Ur husband knows how much u hate this little tart then he is making the situation far worse by giving her the attention she wants.  It must burn u deep to see him flirting with her right infront of ur face, this shows extreme disrespect for u...... personally i would do something like stick a laxative in her drink an hour or two b4 he shows up, that'll wash the smug smile off her face. Do something that makes u feel like u have got revenge without them knowing....but that is me, i can be extremely spiteful when the mood takes me, essepecially if i feel someone is disrespecting to that extent, she sounds like she really needs to be taken down a peg or two....

[jo929]

remember she is a flirt men love the atention, but they seldom marry a flirt, laugh it off, i know it is hard, but the more you make of it the more his ego grows try to ignore, easier said than done i know what the green eyed monster can be  luck  jo