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sorry last night i went to a massage parlour we start kissing on the lips fort two times and i start  fingering her vagina and she start giving me hanjob when she start giving me hand job i came all over the bed when it was finish we start to have protected oral sex when the sex was finish i got worried and i ask her if she get tested she said yes she use to get tested every 3 month but it was too much she does every 6 month and she also told me last time she got tested she was clean.

1.Can i get std from handjob and french kissing?
2. What are my chances to get hiv/STD from french kissing or handjob lets say if someone had std or not
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1 - No, you can't get an STD from handjobs or french kissing.

2 - You can't get an STD from someone if they don't have one.

The only ways you can get an STD or HIV -

1 - Receiving unprotected oral sex - gonorrhea, syphilis, genital herpes type 1, NGU

2 - Giving unprotected oral sex (including rimming) - gonorrhea, syphilis

3 - Receiving protected oral sex (including rimming) - genital herpes type 1, syphilis - this is unlikely, but still possible

4 - Giving protected oral sex - syphilis - this is unlikely, but still possible

5 - Unprotected sex - including genital to genital rubbing, and genital to anal contact/penetration - HIV, gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, genital herpes type 2, NGU, trich, mycoplasma, Hep B (if you are not vaccinated), HPV (vaccination reduced the risk, but there are many strains of this), chancre (not common in the US, but more common in Europe and Asia).

6 - Protected sex - including genital to genital rubbing, and genital to anal contact/penetration - genital herpes type 2, syphilis, HPV HPV (vaccination reduced the risk, but there are many strains of this), chancre (not common in the US, but more common in Europe and Asia).

No risk ever - handjobs, french kissing, touching breasts, fingering, grinding or rubbing with clothes on.

There - now you know all the risk activities, and what you'd be at risk for from each activity. Seriously, you need some help with this addiction (your word) you have. You do this and then panic every time. It's not healthy for you.
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no ya just from that accident the condom slip off thingy has been having a little issue for me im having phobia that when i do my test something bad might come positive and i can’t do anything like my parents my brother my mom and my dad are fine with me to have sex with csw as long using protection all time  i even got test with them and theywere fine with it.
I'm sorry, but why does it matter if your family is okay with you doing this? It's clearly not okay for your mental health.

How old are you? If you are old enough to have sex, you are old enough to make decisions for yourself, and this activity is not mentally healthy for you.

im 25 year old i like it too to be honest i just want to make sure ill be healthy in sexual i also keep asking question its just because i don't have good knowledge about human bodies or how stds are transmitted.
Well, now you know. :) I gave you all the information above about how they are transmitted, and what you can get from each thing.
thanku for your information and patience i try not to post anything anymore last question does condom slipp off or breaking same as having unprotected sex?
Not necessarily. If the condom comes entirely off, yes. If the condom slips off a little, no. It's important for some STDs that the head of your penis is covered. Others, it's about genital skin-to-skin contact, so if it comes off some, then maybe you are at more risk for things like herpes, HPV or syphilis.

If a condom breaks, you'll know. The thing about getting microscopic tears is a myth. You'll see the tears - they are big rips.

https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/condom/how-to-put-a-condom-on

okay last thing since you know all my activities  sex what are my chances doing hiv test to back negative? and i would like to donate you since you help me
As I said above:

No risk ever - handjobs, french kissing, touching breasts, fingering, grinding or rubbing with clothes on.

You had no risk for HIV from the encounter you describe. No risk means you don't have to test. If you do test, it will be negative.

We don't take donations, but thanks :)
I don't think you need to test for HIV. If you do, I'm sure you will be negative.

Seriously, with all the compassion and kindness, stop going to the escorts. It only makes you worry.
sorry why we are at it can you please explain how hiv is transmitted? like the science behind it and does ot always shows symptoms ?
like i know having unprotected sex and oral can lead to hiv but how does it actually happen does her body fluids need to enter my urethra penis ?
Yes, fluids needs to enter your urethra, which is the opening at the end of your penis, where the pee comes out of.

These fluids are blood, semen and vaginal fluids.

It does not always show symptoms, and you shouldn't ever use symptoms to determine if you have HIV. Only testing can determine if you have HIV.

Unprotected oral sex is not considered a real risk for HIV.

If you want to know more about the science - https://aidsinfo.nih.gov/understanding-hiv-aids/fact-sheets/19/46/the-stages-of-hiv-infection

Use condoms, every time. Make sure you are using them correctly, and you don't need to worry about HIV. https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/condom/how-to-put-a-condom-on



so there we go now i understand hiv is harder to catcch other than stds even if ur condom slip off its not that easy to catch hiv with out ejaculation maby for other stds like herpes
No, your ejaculation doesn't matter if your partners are female. If you have male partners, it might reduce the risk if they aren't ejaculating into you. Your ejaculation matters to your partners, since they are female and would be receiving your fluids.

Herpes, HPV and syphilis don't require fluids, just skin to skin contact of the genitals.

Use condoms and it reduces your risk overall by a lot. And for you, stop seeing the escorts. It worries you too much.
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well thank you for helping me out how std's are transmitted than having a wrong information. this site has been helping out a lot. ill continue to have protect sex and hopefully bot does three exposure won't be a big problem for me the condom going inside her, threesome with protected condom and the handjob this thread can stop now thank you.
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