Thanks, guys.
1. Yes, it sounds like kissing is a low risk activity. But, since CSW see ten workers a day, then there is still some risk of regular oral herpes, etc.
2. I would accept receiving a protected BJ, and having regular vaginal sex with a condom. But, even with the best HPV vaccines, there is some risk of other strains.
Many sexually active people just accept this risk. I pride myself on never getting an STD.
3. As for cunnilingus with no protection, it sounds like syphillis risk still.
4. Any way to actually enjoy a good looking woman?
I guess traditional dating is the only way, as cumbersome as it is.
Condoms offer significant protection, but not total, against herpes and syphilis. Much like HPV, they are spread by direct skin to skin contact, and the condom doesn't offer full coverage.
Even with the HPV vaccine, you are still at risk for gonorrhea, chlamydia, trich, mycoplasma genitalium, HIV, hepatitis B (if you aren't vaccinated), NGU, herpes and syphilis.
If you practice cunnilingus without a barrier, you can get syphilis orally. You could get oral gonorrhea and chlamydia, though your chances of that are less likely.
If your partner performs unprotected oral sex on you, you could get syphilis, genital herpes type 1, gonorrhea, chlamydia and NGU.
It's a big risk with any partner whose status you don't know. It's a huge risk with someone who has 10 partners a day.
Sex without a condom exposes you to all manner of potential problems, including HIV. The only way you're going to do that is to have a monogamous relationship with someone who uses birth control of another kind, after you're both tested for everything and take it on faith neither of you is cheating. As for sex workers, they really have a lot less control than you imagine. They are often required to do whatever the customer wants if the payment is high enough, including not using a condom. You can't trust that they never do this.
You answered your own question. It protections against some strains but not all. It gives you that extra protection. Think of a bullet proof vest. If you get shot in the chest it will stop the bullet. But your arms and legs are wide open.
Getting a vaccine is not a way to stop practising safe sex or to become lax over your or their health.