STD or something else?

[SportsGuy73]

Hello, I am super nervous.  I made a super big mistake.  I had sex with a prostitute, I used a condom, it literally only lasted less than 5 minutes.  She gave me about a minute of oral with no condom, and then I put a condom on to have sex.  It didn't last long because I was super drunk, and should've never been there in the first place.  When I pulled out the condom wasn't on, but I think it had just fallen off because my ejaculation was in the condom.  She didn't seem dirty, and said she was clean, but that doesn't mean anything, and I know that.  I didn't think anything of it except for the extreme guilt I felt.  However, fast forward three weeks, I have no symptoms of an STD, but my wife has developed something that looks like a mole/blood blister on her vagina.  It is off to the side, and I don't want to have given her anything.  Does anyone think this could be a STD that I gave her.  I started to worry about genital warts, but like I said I have no symptoms of anything.  Can anyone help me clear my mind about a STD, or do you think it is and we need to get tested?

[auntiejessi]

HPV/genital warts has an incubation period of several weeks to several months, and those are white, pink or skin colored, so this isn't a genital wart.

I think any new mole should be checked out, but I don't think this is an STD.

Oral sex is lower risk than vaginal or anal sex, and most experts don't think it warrants testing. Since you are married, and you're so anxious, test if it will out your mind at ease. I don't think you need to worry.

Just a note - people with STDs are not "dirty". People who need to shower are dirty. I'm sure you didn't mean anything by it, but I just wanted to point that out.

[SportsGuy73]

Thank you for the response, that definitely eases me a little bit. If I knew of a HPV test for men I’d get one. Yes, thanks for the clarification. I definitely didn’t mean people with STDs were dirty, more or less that she was clean in a smelled good way. She’s going to get it looked at, I’m legit almost having to force her too because I want to make sure it’s nothing major. If you have any thoughts, or know where else I could post to see what maybe this is, I’d love to hear; and thanks again for the reply.

[auntiejessi]

Unfortunately, there is no HPV test for men. If she's going to see a doctor, let the doctor determine what it is. No one online will be able to diagnose it from a description, or even a picture.

Try to calm down, and remember that this doesn't fit the symptoms of an STD.

[SportsGuy73]

I will! Thank you again!