Risk from two handjobs and intense breast sucking

[JoelBird]

Hello Doctors,

I am married with a baby.

Yesterday, in London,I went to a massage centre and got a massage with a handjob which was intense. No cum following that.

Then I went to a different massage an shot massage with a handjob ( unprotected) and intensely sucked the breasts of the masseur. Again no cum.this second lady had nipples pierced before since here nipples were more elongated outwards.she also had here belly button pierced and had several tattoos. I fear she might be a drug user.please tell me the risk.

All habdjobs were un protected.

Can you please assess my risk here for all STDs and STIs please.

[JoelBird]

Please somebody help with an answer. I have been having an itchiness in glans for some days now post the incidence.

[eagles6972]

Their is no risk for std. it is probably form a rough handjob. Take my advice if you are uncircumcised. Wear baggy clothes, and pull foreskin out. You will be fine. Just let the buddy rest.

[JoelBird]

Thank you eagles6972. My concern is what if some breast liquid whatever it may be gets in my mouth where it may contact some unknown ulcers or any opening. That puts me in some risk.

[eagles6972]

You mentioned she had no visible sores in the breast. It is rare that for example let’s say any dietases to transmit from that area when their are no symptoms. The skin is to thick. Second the mouth is full on enzymes that usually kill anything that goes so it would have to be large amounts of liquid that go in. Really take my advice from someone who suffers from anxiety. A blind man can not lead another, but he can help you a bit. Really the only risk would be if she had let’s say a blister also know as herpes Whitlow. Or a fresh cut and you had fresh cut. Which I am assuming you don’t. Take some tea, two Epsom salt baths. Really let your buddy rest. Look at it once a day after a shower and check it. If you need no physical things in the next two weeks your fine. I’ll bet you my European blue card that you didn’t catch something. Do me a favor , let this to be an experience you have it great back home.  The adrenaline of one thing is not worth the stress. Enjoy your family. You are fine.

Eagles6972

[JoelBird]

Thank you Eagles6872..take care.

[auntiejessi]

I totally agree with everything eagles said. There is no risk of anything here.

The only "breast fluids" women have are breast milk, and that's only if she's lactating if she just had a baby and is breast feeding. You'd taste that. I don't know if you meant this, but women don't just ooze fluids randomly. :)

I don't have a European blue card, or even know what that is, but I'd bet the equivalent that you don't have anything.

[JoelBird]

Thank you auntiejessi. You mentioned bet. That means there is some chance of something here. I have living very fearfully and dangerously since the day. It is the 12 th day. Do you think there is any chance slightly, for anything, specially HIV. What if my mouth had cold sores I did not know and something got in touch from breast or anything like that, may be a cut. Her nipples were pierced, though the ornamaent was not there, the shape and size suggests so. The second girl I mean. She was 23 and from Romania. Please let me know my risks.

[JoelBird]

Hi Auntjessi....please tell me..please..

[auntiejessi]

Okay, take a second here, and calm down.

No, that's not at all what I meant. I meant that there's no risk, so I'd bet whatever that you don't have anything because I can't lose.

There is no way this is a risk for anything - you can't get any STD or HIV this way. It doesn't matter if you had mouth sores, or her nipples were pierced, or anything - there are no what if scenarios that make this a risk. If she had a cut on her breast, you'd have seen it. You know that. She didn't.

If you had a risk, I'd tell you. You have no risk for anything.

I sense that anxiety is not new for you, or that there's some reason you are this anxious over a totally non-risk event. I don't know what that is, and don't need to know, but anxiety doesn't equal risk, and guilt doesn't equal risk, either.

If you can't let this go, talk to your doctor about anxiety.

[JoelBird]

Thank you Auntjessi...I breathe a sigh of relief. I will however still go for a HIV test post 28 days. I don't want to get with my family because that is all I have. I hope that will be conclusive. A duo ? Please let me know when you have time.

[auntiejessi]

You have no need to do an HIV test. You had no risk.

I have no idea what your family has to do with anything here.

Seriously, you are WAY over-reacting to this. You had NO RISK. You don't need to test. You need to talk to your doctor about your anxiety.

[JoelBird]

Thank you...I wish and pray you are right...cheers from London.

[JoelBird]

Sorry, my fear overcame me. So my concern is, while sucking the breasts, if I cut her breast which resulted in blood from them, that puts me in a risk, ain't it?

[JoelBird]

I was actually sucking the breast preety rough. Please tell me my risk.

[JoelBird]

Hi Auntiejessi..please let me know.

[auntiejessi]

Hi -

So listen. Everyone on this site answers questions on their own time. Also, it is not our job to manage your anxiety. You should have a therapist who can help you do that. Posting on a message board isn't a great coping skill. I don't mean to sound harsh, but your mental health is important.

Unless you did something major like tear her skin off, there wouldn't be enough blood to cause any problems. There are enzymes in saliva which inactivate HIV.

Again, and I have no other way to say this, you had no risk.

[JoelBird]

Thank you...thank you for the great help that you all provide.thats it from my side. Signing off. Take care and cheers again.

[JoelBird]

And also, sorry to have bothered you.