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Handjob risk
I am male, got a handjob at massage parlor on 22/9. She was clothes on, licked my nipple. I touched her vagina. I have read many posts that handjob pose no risk. But just want to make sure I did not get anything because I have a girlfriend.
- I took Gor, Chla and other bacteria PCR test (using urine) at 14 days and 24 days after exposure (NEG for all except Ureaplasma urealyticum). I don't have any sympton when urinating but I have varicocele so sometimes I have backpain and lower abdoment pain. (Not sure it from varicocele or from the handjob).
- HIV Combo test at day 31 (NEG).
- RPR and CMIA test at 4 week and 6 week ( NEG).
Am I save? Are tests above conclusive? I need any other test?
- I took Gor, Chla and other bacteria PCR test (using urine) at 14 days and 24 days after exposure (NEG for all except Ureaplasma urealyticum). I don't have any sympton when urinating but I have varicocele so sometimes I have backpain and lower abdoment pain. (Not sure it from varicocele or from the handjob).
- HIV Combo test at day 31 (NEG).
- RPR and CMIA test at 4 week and 6 week ( NEG).
Am I save? Are tests above conclusive? I need any other test?
You've posted here previously? Hand jobs are never a risk for HIV. Doesn't happen. HIV is only transmitted by unprotected vaginal or unprotected anal sex or sharing IV needles to inject drugs. Air inactivates the vagina. You don't/won't get HIV from touching a vagina. Or from a hand job. Ever. And you won't get an std from that either. Testing is not warranted. If you can't let this go, I suggest working on this from the angle that you suffer an anxiety disorder.
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Hi Guitar Rox, Many thanks for your response.
No this is my first post. HIV is not my main concern but the STD, especially the bacteria that cause UTI. But as you said, I won’t get an std from handjob so I believe it. I think the main problem is the anxiety, and the varicocele. Anxiety makes my varicocele problem worse and hurt my testicles. Then make me doubt if it is an std, then more anxiety. It is like a cycle that I can't get out. And the guilt when going to massage parlor anh betray my soulmate. I will never do anything stupid like this again. I know what I have to do: forgive myself and move on. But it is so hard and I keep looking for the confirmation that I am “clean”. Yeah, we grow by mistake. Sorry for my stupid story, and my English. Just need somewhere to throw all the trash in my head.
No this is my first post. HIV is not my main concern but the STD, especially the bacteria that cause UTI. But as you said, I won’t get an std from handjob so I believe it. I think the main problem is the anxiety, and the varicocele. Anxiety makes my varicocele problem worse and hurt my testicles. Then make me doubt if it is an std, then more anxiety. It is like a cycle that I can't get out. And the guilt when going to massage parlor anh betray my soulmate. I will never do anything stupid like this again. I know what I have to do: forgive myself and move on. But it is so hard and I keep looking for the confirmation that I am “clean”. Yeah, we grow by mistake. Sorry for my stupid story, and my English. Just need somewhere to throw all the trash in my head.
UTIs are not sexually transmitted. There are lots of bacteria that can cause those, but they aren't considered STIs.
Therapy helps anxiety. Maybe you need meds - that's something you can talk to your doctor about. Therapy can also help you determine why you go to massage parlors when it's going to cause a cycle of guilt and anxiety and pain.
If you are having such discomfort with your varicocele, you should talk to your doctor about treatment options.
Therapy helps anxiety. Maybe you need meds - that's something you can talk to your doctor about. Therapy can also help you determine why you go to massage parlors when it's going to cause a cycle of guilt and anxiety and pain.
If you are having such discomfort with your varicocele, you should talk to your doctor about treatment options.
But from the tests above, which infection I can sure that I didn’t get it?
I can't tell from the way you worded things if you tested pos for ureaplasma or if they didn't test for it. If you tested positive for that, know that it can be naturally occuring. You also won't get it from a handjob.
As I said above, you didn't get anything from a handjob. GuitarRox said it, too.
You didn't need to test after that encounter, but you probably need therapy for your anxiety, and to find out why you cheat on your soulmate if you love her so much, and it causes you such guilt and anxiety.
As I said above, you didn't get anything from a handjob. GuitarRox said it, too.
You didn't need to test after that encounter, but you probably need therapy for your anxiety, and to find out why you cheat on your soulmate if you love her so much, and it causes you such guilt and anxiety.
Many thanks for your response, auntiejessi. I tested pos for ureaplasma but it already pos before this encounter. Now I will try to move on. Thanks for your hardwork here
You're welcome.
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