Hello! I have recently been feeling very anxious about an encounter I had 2 years ago with a colleague. My guilt and anxiety is so high lately... my life is so blessed and I feel like such a jerk for doing this. I had protected (perhaps brief unprotected, I was drinking…) vaginal sex and some oral unprotected with him. He is also married and said he didn’t do this ever (but I don’t believe him). I have also had a baby since this encounter and he is healthy and I’m so blessed. 6 days after the encounter I tested vaginally which was negative, then again two weeks after vaginal and throat, both negative. My dr didn’t test me for chlamydia during my pregnancy bc it was within 6 months of these negative tests. Sometimes I have an itchy vulva (external) but usually I think it’s because of sweating/working out in yoga pants and hormonal changes….. my dr has me use an anti fungal if it gets bad and that helps, but it triggers me to worry about this. My question is - were my tests accurate? Should I lay this to rest? I feel so much shame & have been ruminating…. Thank you!