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Erotic Massage with touching clitoris
Hi. I had a body-to-body massage with happy ending last week. I didn't use condom. There was no kissing and no oral sex. I have 2 concerns:
1. My penis' head might had softly touched her vagina a few times while she was sliding over my body.
2. At the end I was touching her clitoris with my finger for a short time. Later, I noticed that I had a small wound by my nail on that finger. I probably didn't touch her with he wound directly, but it sure was very close.
Are there any risks of getting STD in my actins? I'm worried about HIV the most.
To make peace with that, I will surely take a STD test. - How long after the risk should I take the test?
Thank you ver much for your help!
1. My penis' head might had softly touched her vagina a few times while she was sliding over my body.
2. At the end I was touching her clitoris with my finger for a short time. Later, I noticed that I had a small wound by my nail on that finger. I probably didn't touch her with he wound directly, but it sure was very close.
Are there any risks of getting STD in my actins? I'm worried about HIV the most.
To make peace with that, I will surely take a STD test. - How long after the risk should I take the test?
Thank you ver much for your help!
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Greetings.
You may want to read some other posts on this forum: about a half of them are very similar to yours.
There is no risk for HIV in your case. A wound on your finger doesn't make any difference. HIV is not transmitted through touching or fingering.
There was no real risk for other STIs as well. Theoretically there is a risk for herpes and syphilis and some risk for HPV but really nothing to worry about or go STI testing.
You may want to read some other posts on this forum: about a half of them are very similar to yours.
There is no risk for HIV in your case. A wound on your finger doesn't make any difference. HIV is not transmitted through touching or fingering.
There was no real risk for other STIs as well. Theoretically there is a risk for herpes and syphilis and some risk for HPV but really nothing to worry about or go STI testing.
Thank you grobick2000 and auntiejessi.
I checked many posts, but I didn't find answers regarding touching with a wound on the finger.
One more thing. Let's say I DID touch her clitoris with my wound on my finger. What are the chances in this case?
Thank you.
I checked many posts, but I didn't find answers regarding touching with a wound on the finger.
One more thing. Let's say I DID touch her clitoris with my wound on my finger. What are the chances in this case?
Thank you.
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I answered that already.
Was the wound scabbed over and healing? There's no risk for anything.
Even if it wasn't, there's no risk for HIV. You have to have a big gaping wound that's bleeding and the person also has to have a big gaping wound that's bleeding in order for HIV to transmit through cuts.
There is something called herpetic whitlow, which is a herpes infection on the finger. However, it's rare, and you already said that your wound didn't touch her. So it didn't happen. Don't do the what ifs.
You're fine, really.
Was the wound scabbed over and healing? There's no risk for anything.
Even if it wasn't, there's no risk for HIV. You have to have a big gaping wound that's bleeding and the person also has to have a big gaping wound that's bleeding in order for HIV to transmit through cuts.
There is something called herpetic whitlow, which is a herpes infection on the finger. However, it's rare, and you already said that your wound didn't touch her. So it didn't happen. Don't do the what ifs.
You're fine, really.
Thank you. Well, the wound was fresh, but small and it didn't bleed.
So, if I understand correctly, HIV cannot transmit from vaginal fluid (or lubricant) to blood through the wound?
So, if I understand correctly, HIV cannot transmit from vaginal fluid (or lubricant) to blood through the wound?
There needs to be enough virus to transmit, and there wouldn't be enough from a touch of vaginal secretions to a small, non-bleeding wound.
Going back, though, your wound - scratch? something? non-broken skin? - didn't touch her. Your skin has to be broken. If it's not bleeding, or hadn't bled, or been open, it's not broken.
Going back, though, your wound - scratch? something? non-broken skin? - didn't touch her. Your skin has to be broken. If it's not bleeding, or hadn't bled, or been open, it's not broken.
When we talk about HIV transmission via wounds, we are talking about CATASTROPHIC wounds where a lot of blood is being intermingled - think about an auto accident where both parties are severely injured and require immediate medical attention. HIV has to enter the bloodstream, which isn't accomplished via minor cuts or scrapes that don't require emergency attention.
auntiejessi, I'm biting my nails (I'm ashamed), so I bit off a bit of skin next on the side of the nail. The wound was red, but the blood didn't really pour out, not even a drop. If I touched the wound it burned me.
CurfewX, thank you for the clear explanation. I hope you're not exaggerating. If you're right, then I'm surely ok :)
CurfewX, thank you for the clear explanation. I hope you're not exaggerating. If you're right, then I'm surely ok :)
Curfew is not exaggerating. You are absolutely okay. :)
Thank you. I have one more concern. Since the day after the massage and still today (6 days), I have a bit uncomfortable feeling in my penis. It's not pain, maybe a soft burning feeling but not when I urinate. There are no visible changes. Could that be the sign of anything? Or is it just my anxiety, because I'm keep thinking of it?
Thanks.
Thanks.
Your penis wasn't even exposed to anything. You say your penis head "might have" touched her vagina. You didn't penetrate her, and the touches sound brief.
This is anxiety. I don't know if you went outside a regular relationship, and that's why you are so anxious about this, or it's something else, but you had no risk. I can't say it any other way.
If this is guilt, remember that guilt does not equal risk.
This is anxiety. I don't know if you went outside a regular relationship, and that's why you are so anxious about this, or it's something else, but you had no risk. I can't say it any other way.
If this is guilt, remember that guilt does not equal risk.
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Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
You didn't have any penetration, so you can't get gonorrhea, chlamydia, mycoplasma, trich, HIV, or hepatitis B.
The touches with your penis were brief, so the chances of herpes, HPV and syphilis are very close to zero. I wouldn't even worry.
If the wound on your finger didn't touch her, there's no risk for anything. It would only be a slight risk for herpes, if she had it. If it was scabbed over and healing, there's no risk. There's no risk for HIV.