Extremely risky encounter with a csw

[George_williams]

Hello Medhelp,

Earlier today I was involved in a mostly protected encounter with a csw . It involved vaginal sex. And I finished off with masturbation.

I am really worried because I was in a drowsy state,was high and not in my complete senses during the encounter.

I started with french kissing ,some foreplay and had protected sex in the dog style position. After that I changed the position to missionary and saw some vaginal fluid on the condom and changed to a new condom since fluid was all over the it. I changed the position and condoms about 3-4 times during the encounter. It was protected the whole time as far as I remember. And I came off in the condom by masturbating in the end.

What if there was fluid contact with bare skin? Could it lead to herpes? Or hiv? Or even any sort of bare contact?

Also, I have known the csw from last few years, have always been involved in protected sex. I have also seen her negative HiV status in the past. But I don't know about her status currently. I don't know her hsv status.

I have never noticed any sores or anything too unusual with her genitals including today. I have never developed any sores in the genitals myself either. I have never had any sort of unprotected sex, oral or vaginal.

I had tested negative for hiv a few months back last year. I will also get tested at the earliest in about 4 weeks now. And will put and end to this misery forever.

What are chances of developing hsv or hiv or any other STDs from this?



Please help. Thanks.

[auntiejessi]

Condoms protect you against gonorrhea, chlamydia, mycoplasma, trich, and hep B so long as the head of your penis was covered. You don't need to worry about those at all. Take those off your list, too.

You get herpes, syphilis and HPV from direct skin to skin contact, not vaginal fluids. Your unclothed genital skin has to come into direct contact with their unclothed genital skin.

A condom offers significant, but not total, protection against these because not all of the skin is covered.

The chances that you would get herpes from a one-time protected encounter are very low.

Syphilis is uncommon in most developed countries - the US, UK, Canada, countries in Europe, etc.

HPV is very common, but condoms offer significant protection against it.

Honestly, if she's using condoms with you, she's probably using condoms with all her clients. She does this to protect herself from you, not the other way around. This is her livelihood. She has to protect herself. I wouldn't worry about this. If you get symptoms, see your doctor, but otherwise, it's not nearly as risky as you think.

[CurfewX]

You can take HIV off your list of concerns, as you never had a risk for HIV. The only risks for HIV in adults are:
1) Having unprotected (no condom) penetrative anal or vaginal sex, OR
2) Sharing IV drug equipment with other IV drug users.

There isn't any other circumstance you can think of that would put you at risk for HIV. As long as the condom did not VISIBLY break during intercourse, you were completely protected from HIV.  I'll let the experts in this forum answer your questions about STDs and herpes, but I wanted to get rid of your concerns about HIV.  No risk, no need to test.