BV & STD

[babudar]

I need assitance for my own mistakes I have been going out with escorts i have lip kissing with them and they give me bj without protection and i insert finger on them without proctection than i use protection and i ejacute. I have done this with various girls now i regreat my last was 3weeks back and i check for shphills was negative and hiv tested negative i need to test again after 3months now my wife got BV and urine irritation i need advice on BV is it cause of me and is BV related to hiv? is BV means you have HIV? Please assits me urgently

[gracefromHHP]

we have answered your questions about your risk. this is all anxiety that is making you think this way at this point. perhaps you should speak to a professional counselor therapist to help you work on this anxiety?

[babudar]

leukocytes is high with 50Leu/uL and nitrites Positive is there chance being std or hiv acute?

[gracefromHHP]

reoccurring yeast and bv infections is very common in females. it isn't a sign that she has hiv.  you really need to stop thinking hiv!!!!  

if she has blood in her urine, she needs further testing done to find out what is going on.

[babudar]

Thanks for your support, today she meet the gyno he told him its yeast infection and I haven't meet her for last 3 weeks after she was been treated now again she is having yeast infection now she got antibiotic again which is 3rd time antibiotic she is getting and to insert medicine and today she had fever and I was also googling i got answer the recurring of yeast infection is acute HIV is it true? And she also got pin and niddles  on her left side of kidney? I'm just freaking out and stressed please advice I did my vrdl test and HIV thank god was negative her urine test was normal everything they saw blood in urine as she is in her days and her blood test FBI WBC is normal and her hub is 7 and RBI is low is tht cause she is HIV?

[gracefromHHP]

bv won't cause urine to have odor. if her urine is smelling different, she needs to have urine testing done for infections.

it takes about a week for bv treatments to work. it also commonly comes back a lot so she might need to be seen monthly for testing.

you didn't contract hiv from oral sex. you need to stop worrying about that!!

yes, stopping breast feeding can cause some hormonal changes.

bv makes you more likely to contract a std if you have a partner who has one. as I said, you should be only having protected sexual contact with others to protect your wife.

[Vance2335]

1) Post in the HIV forum
2) Yes it is treatable, 1 week
3) Gonorrhea, chlamydia
4) Can't really say
5) Post in the HIV forum
6) Not STD related

Don't know if that is true or not about bv and breastfeeding.

[babudar]

Sorry one more for my knowledge my wife stopped breast feeding one month back is there any chance for my child to effect with breastfeeding? May be i red wrongly is it true BV can occur also for the hormon in balance and stopping breast feeding can in balance hormones?

[babudar]

Thanks alot for your advice, Please if you can assit me more i have few more questions,
1) BV is suspectaly hiv? yes than is it a acute or window period symtomps?
2) BV is treatable, how long does it take cause my wife had antibotic and lots of water intact and today the urine started to smell again?
3) Wht std can be seen in urine?
4) She did urine test thanks god all was negative i had last meet her 2weeks back so by now what std symtoms shall have shown up?
5) I cant tell her to test for HIV and i get tested and if i am negative is there any way shall be false negative or true negative than she is safe from HIV?
6) I have itching on my palms and hand fingers its like a mosqito bite type but its not mosqito bite its many

I highly appreciate for your advice and time

[gracefromHHP]

should you be having protected oral sex with these women? YES YOU SHOULD!!  you have a partner at home to protect and her safety should be your number one concern, not your pleasure.   even though the risk of a std is low from receiving oral sex, it's not zero by no means and you shouldn't be taking chances.  it doesn't matter that you don't ejaculate inside their mouths - it's the sex act itself that is the risk and you are putting yourself and your partner at risk by having unprotected oral sex.  not trying to lecture as much as trying to educate you on how to have safer sexual contact with others.

could you have brought home the bacteria that contributes to  bv frequently to your wife from these other partners? yes you could though indeed bv is very common in sexually active women. no way to know if your contact with other partners is contributing to this or not.

grace

[Vance2335]

Above you said you had protected sex. So now it's unprotected sex? What is it?

[babudar]

Thanks, I just wanted to ask i had unprocted sex than i protected to ejacute now any std i can give her my side all was negative and secondly if all gals are safe and i have unprocted sex with them can i get std

[Vance2335]

HIV questions post in the HIV forum.

BV is not a STD, it's overgrowth of bacteria that is normal bacteria to a woman.