Also along with all the other good advice, if your concern is that you are going to transmit the virus to your future wife and she might get cervical cancer, do you have a way to ask your future wife if she has had the vaccine already? Depending on what country she lives in, she might have gotten it as a teenager.
Fortunately, yes they do have HPV vaccines in here, and I think I'm going to have myself jabbed. But does vaccine help eras e the previous infections or does it merely prevent future cases?
Your doctor is correct - the strains of HPV that cause warts won't cause cancer.
It is possible to get more than one strain of HPV at a time, or at different times. You can get a low risk kind - the kind that cause warts - and a high risk kind at the same time.
It is possible to transmit either of these to your wife. HPV is highly contagious.
HPV can cause cancer, but most of the time, it doesn't. Does your wife get her pap smears? If she does, it will likely be cause before it turns into cancer.
Is the HPV vaccine available in Indonesia? If it is, I don't know the guidelines for giving it, but talk to your doctor. It protects against the most common strains, so while it won't totally prevent it, it does help.
If you are going to continue seeing the CSWs, you are also infectious to them. Condoms help, but don't 100% prevent herpes, syphilis and HPV.