Feb 28 had protected oral sex with CSW. She stayed on the condom covered area except for 3-4 licks on my left scrotum
Mar 1 started to notice a tingling sensation on the right side of penis shaft - edge of foreskin where it meets the shaft
Mar 2 noticed a lesion at said location, pink, slightly discolored compared to surrounding skin, no blister, just occasional slight pain. Worries sick that it might be herpes
Mar 3 noticed some heat sensation in urethra after peeing, immediately saw a doctor and swabbed for Chlamydia/Gonorrhea. Given a course of Augmentin (7 days)
For the next 6 days, the lesion did not heal but also didn't not get worse or develop into blisters. Heat sensation in urethra also stayed about the same
Mar 5 went to see dermatologist/venereologist, did a swab for herpes, awaiting result
Mar 10 lab result from first doctor came back, negative for Chlamydia/Gonorrhea, but found scanty growth of Haemophilus influenzae, doctor believes it would be the cause for my urethritis.
I was told Haemophilus influenzae is primarily found in nose and throat, and might be transmitted during oral sex. However as mentioned I was already wearing a condom, so did my condon break and the bacteria got through? I'm losing my mind over this - after reading so much here, I was convinced that the chance of getting herpes via protected oral sex was very low and was starting to ease my mind about my lesion, thinking it was more of a friction burn. But with this bacterial infection, I can't help but think if the CSW had oral herpes, the virus might have also had contact with my penis?
Please, I'm super worried, and any advice is appreciated, thank you.