Hello
Sorry to hear about your partners unfaithfulness. If you have had protected vaginal/anal intercourse then I, and other here commend you for that. This along has protected you from numerous STDs. We have discussed ad nauseum on here, just how effective (effectively good) condoms are for STD protection, this includes HIV.
Oral sex in general poses a low risk encounter for STDs.
Genital herpes symptoms usually show between 1 week to 2 months after an exposure.
If indeed you have had protected sex, the only thing you should test for the this exposure is
gonorrhea. (That would be conclusive now).
HPV and herpes testing should be done at 3 months post exposure.
We are gay males, We were sexuall active since January, my HIv rapid came back negative and waiting on the std results, can take up to 3 weeks. And told to go back for another HIv test in 3 months.