My penis made contact with the vaginal lips of a SW 15 Sep 11. 3 days later had sex with GF, a week after that GF developed a white discharge and itching. Both of us took 1G of Zpac medicine, discharge cleared within 48 hours, had sex after 72 hours. I have had recurring urethra burning sensations off and on, not when urinating ever since. I have had recurring muscle and joint pain. I was tested for Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, syphilis, HIV and herpes 46 days after SW contact all negative, been tested for chl-gon several times since, all negative. My GF has always had painful periods even before this started and they continue. She had a uti in March 12 that responded to Bactrim and was apparently resolved. The last 6 weeks she has been having IBS symptoms. Now we both are having throat, hoarse voice and ear issues that i relate to oral sex. I have an ear infection and dry cough sweats with no temp. . I have had no luck getting a provider to order a Mycoplasma test. What should i do?