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Cunnilingus Risks - conclusions?

Hello, sorry for my bad English, I am a heterosexual man, married and a couple of months ago I committed a madness.

I was with a brothel prostitute, we had protected vaginal sex but I practiced cunnilingus for a short time, and I was committed to her vaginal fluids, I did not see sores in her vagina and I did not smell or taste bad, by the time of the events my oral health was very bad, had inflamed gums, maybe bleeding when I washed my teeth and dental caries.

This has been my only exhibition.

Since then I have been anxious and worried, I almost do not sleep, I have not had any symptoms and I do not have any strange things in my mouth- I have read that cunnilingus represents a low risk, however, it increases with the situation I had in my mouth.

I have read members, vance, teak, Lizzie and the comments of doctors HHH, Hook and Gonzalez.

I have drawn some conclusions that I would like to share in order to determine if I am right and can be calmer, here I go:

- Cunnilingus is of low risk because saliva inactivates the virus.
- Cunnilingus is of little risk because the hiv is weak and then when leaving the vagina the air inactivates it, without neglecting that, the air of your mouth would do the same.
- the vaginal fluid with viral load is the cervical mucus and not the product produced by the bartholin glands that is usually contacted in an episode of cunnlingus, in fact, the cervical mucus is a fluid with little load, unlike blood or semen. In that order of ideas, it would take a lot of vaginal discharge to infect you.
- Cunnilings is of little risk because HIV is transmitted inside the body, as in copula.
- It is of little risk, because the virus needs a particular environment to survive, that does not have the mouth and that when leaving the vagina it loses effectiveness, because it is a different ph.
- Regardless of the wounds, these must be bleeding and large, such as the mouth of methamphetamine or a dental surgery, a common wound or several cavities do not change anything, because in the same way there is saliva in between.
- A single episode of cunnilingus does not have enough entity to infect you, because the risk is very low, then you would need several epiodios.
- It is low risk because the statistics prove it, very few women infected, without knowing excatamente if they told the truth.
-the mucosa of the mouth is stronger than that of the anus or vagina
- Nobody recommends tests for an episode like that.

I would like to know if you agree? Im very afraid.

I remain attentive to your comments, thank you very much. I want to forget this sorrow and continue with my normal life, my wife and my daughter. I do not want to die
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Hi having protected vaginal sex  and giving oral vaginal sex is a risk for herpes and syphilis and since you married test for these before becoming intimate with your wife.  Even low risk its not fare to put any risk to your wife.
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and for the hiv?
No risk for HIV
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