Hi,
Im a 30 year old male in NY, I had unprotected vaginal with a csw in while on business in china a few months ago. 16 days after the act the head(glans) my penis got extremley red and irritated(no blisters) lasted for 4 weeks. Within 2 days after the start of the problem with my penis I got completely ill( fever, nasue, vomitng, diareah, nightsweats, malaise) lasted for a about a week or two. I took the following tests 8 weeks (clym,ghoner,syhpillis,hiv,hsv-2,hep b/c) all negative, 16 weeks (hiv,hsv-2,htlv1/2,cmv,lyme, cbc,sed rate,ana,cd4 subset,hiv rna pcr) all negative or normal. My real problem is that at week 8 ,I developed a tremor in my whole body, its there 24/7 and doesnt go away ever not even with alcohol. I also got these symptoms a week 8 that wont go away (troubled by severe neck pain, sore armpits and groin. Intermitent severe fatigue/ nasuea vomiting, bad muscle and joint pain. I believe I have had more than sufficeint testing for hiv/syhpillis as well as more rare infections(hltv/cmv/lyme). The issue is I find it hard to believe that my current problems have nothing to do with the sex act considering everything started with a badly red and irritated penis, it was a literal red flag!! I spoke with a good friend and told him my situation, and he responded with the exact fear i had.. He said" you may have gotten something we dont know about yet". Which is a fear i have been contemplating. Think about this. In the early 1980's , people started to get real sick because of hiv/aids, and no one believed them or took them serious because we didnt know about it then. Whos to say there isnt something similar out there now?
I know my body and I know something is way wrong ever since my sex act. I know there is slim to no chance its hiv or any of the above i tested for. So what is going on? Has anyone heard of a new potential std going around?