Hey,
I’m here to put your mind at ease.
This was entirely safe and a no risk encounter for any and all STI.
Now breath and relax.
For the record no STI is a “horrible disease” please don’t use terms like that, it’s no more “horrible” than a cold. Don’t stigmatise it. Thanks.
I’ve had this exact same experience and question. There was in fact someone right before me and have been a wreck myself about it, but if you want to look at my thread, there are responses on there..im actually awaiting a test now.
This is not a risk at all. STIs are spread by unprotected oral sex, penis in vagina sex or penis in anus sex. They can also be spread by unclothed, direct skin to skin contact of mouth to genitals, genital to genital or genital to genital, often with grinding/rubbing/a lot of friction.
They are not spread by massages, fingering, handjobs, towels, massage tables, etc.
A lot of people ask questions about it, but that doesn't make it a risk. Guilt and shame don't equal risk.