Lack of info for Urologist?

[jumpiest]

Hi Doctor,
I'm a 49 year old man, married for over 16 years (both faithfully).
I went to see a urologist about some symptoms and he said it wasn't prostatitis or ngu. After leaving the office I thought that I hadn't told him of other symptoms.
Before that appointment I had twice (2 years ago and 3 months ago taken a test chlymidia test with neg results because of a tingling sensation at the tip of my penis. Also had 2 PSA tests done: nothing abnormal
I told the urologist about some symptoms (very occasionally a little pain with urination/a short tickling sensation after I lay down after urinating at night, tighness in the perenium (but not for a while). He also looked at my penis-I told him it can get some red spots/bumps on the head- and he also looked at my foreskin near the penis as it gets red and itchy and there is constantly a red mark (it sort of goes away with canesten). In fact, it can bleed a little sometimes after sex near there, which I forgot to tell the doctor.
What I also forgot to mention was that the urethra is very occasionally a little irritated and that the tip of my penis sometimes tingles/itches (this has been going on, off and on,for at least 2 years.
Also I forgot to mention that very occasionally, when I get an erection, the top of the shaft of the penis hurts (maybe the dry skin from the possible yeast infections that he said I could have) and it seems to hurt on the inside in the head of the penis. This also happened 2 years ago for  a short time but stopped.
My questions are:
1) Would the things that I forgot to mention change his diagnosis (not proststitis nor a NGU?)
2) Could I have something that could hurt my wife  (trich/ Ureaplasma urealyticum/ Mycoplasma genitalium...) or give her PID?

I do have problems with OCD so am I just being stupid? Thank you so much and looking forward to your reply.

[Life360_Dave]

Hi and welcome. Im not sure about some of the thing you mention but the red spots on the penis tip could be a allergic reaction to any medications your taking. I had them also from meds for high blood press and chlorstal and a salt pill. They come and go and use cloderm as goes away in a few days. The dermatoligist said that for some strange and unknown reason these reactions show up there. The spots do get sensitive and believe if i had sex they would bleed also.

[gracefromHHP]

I'm voting for your ocd kicking in :)

none of your symptoms sound std related.  

did your provider recommend any treatments for your symptoms?

grace

[jumpiest1]

Thanks for the vote of confidence!

[jumpiest1]

Had to change my name-lost my password. I think I'll pay to hear what the dr says ...but thanks!