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Stripper handjob with lubricant

Recently I went to a strip club drunk and the stripper ended up giving me a handjob. Then reached into her bag and put some kind of lubricant or something on her hands. I could not see because I had another stripper on my face (stupid drunk mistakes ugh) and the lubricant burned. I continue to let her do it for 4-5 minutes. My question is, Can herpes or any other std live inside of a lubricant jar that has quite possibly had infected individuals bacteria or viruses in it from her hand going into the jar multiple times for reapplying on several men? Can std be passed that way? My penis was already raw from dry sex two days prior.
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No, STDs don't live outside the body for long at all, nor would they survive in a jar. Handjobs also do not transmit STDs.

My guess is that something in whatever she used for lube irritated you because the skin was dry, or you had an allergic reaction to it.
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Great news thank you so much for your reply! So, just one last follow up question would be. So std cannot live or survive inside a lubricant oil or water based tub/jar? That’s my main worry, that it was in that jar of lube from her last customer (or whatever it was) and I may have already had microscopic abrasions. I have learned a serious life lesson and will NEVER put myself in that situation again. Thx in advance for your reply!
Anyone else? Please. Burning sensation everywhere including testicles
You're really just asking the same question a different way.  No, you aren't going to get any STD from lubricant, oil, cream, a person's hand - none of that would be a risk.  

Please see a doctor if you have burning sensations.  It's not related to an STD, but you could be having an allergic reaction of some sort.
Well, to my defense she said std would not survive in a jar. So I asked if it would survive in the actually medium substance of the lubricant itself. I just wanted clarification. What is your medical background?
You’ve both been wonderful! Thank you for your advice :)
I do not work in the field of STDs.  I keep up with those who are experts in the field of STDs, though, and you will not find a single case study where a person contracted an STD from a substance in a jar.
I have worked in the field, in education/public health, and agree totally that you will not find a single case study where a person contracted an STD from a substance in a jar, a lubricant, oil, cream, etc.

Seriously, if there was any way there was a risk, we'd tell you. We don't play word games here.
Thank you both! Much appreciated! Love the confirmation and advice. :)
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