Hello,
I’m a Male in ontario and here’s my story: I received protected oral sex twice from a woman in November, about a week apart. In early December I had what I thought was a syphilis chancre, I was worried so I sent a picture to an online doctor using Maple and they said it wasn’t.
In Mid January I received unprotected oral sex from a man. Two weeks later I got sick with UTI symptoms: clear thin discharge, epididymal pain on one side, fever, and diarrhea. Testicle pain was so bad it radiates down my leg. I went in and got treated for UTI while my tests for chlamydia and gonorrhea were done. They came back negative but I was treated for those anyways. I also went for an ultrasound of my testicle but it only showed a small vesicle with septatation, apparently nothing of note.
I couldn’t wait for the HiV and syphilis testing for 3 months so I got tested in early march and it was negative. I also did my full STI screening again in mid April and everything was negative again.
My question is how definitive is syphilis testing? I just find it hard to believe this is all just inconvenient timing and would like some reassurance. Thanks in advance.